Did I overreact to his relationship with his sister in law?

You are lucky to be rid of him. :)

Drop him like a bad habit.

There’s something off about the whole relationship. If your boyfriend honestly considers your relationship with her to be the deciding factor on the fate of your relationship, something weird is going on there.

While it can be difficult to be integrated into existing close family relationships, this one is in The Twilight Zone. My heart goes out to you, but you did the wise and healthy thing by getting out. It sounds as if there is little chance that it would have eventually gotten better, and there is potential there that it could get worse.

You’re ex bf is a loser. Hahahahahaha!

Good grief. I find a good guy who treats me like a lady except for one MAJOR flaw. sucks

@rebeccan01218 There are still some fish in the ocean. “Someone who doesn’t have a weird relationship with his sister-in-law” is not too much to ask for.

Start calling her husband.

Be off with it. People have issues all the time.

I would be surprised if it took him one month after moving to florida to fall into bed with her. Hell she already sounds and acts like a possessive lover. I think he was with you to cover up his feelings for her so his brother thinks their relationship is innocent. You are lucky to be out of it.

He is heading for trouble: with his brother, with the rest of the family. Not least because she sounds like a stone bitch.

Be glad of your escape. He did have problems as a boyfriend: big problems. Someone else’s opinion of you shaped his????

Just feel sorry for his brother now. I wonder how HE feels about his wife’s obsession with his brother? You did the right thing by getting out before you invested anymore into the relationship.

You did not overreact, there’s definitely something weird there. You did the right thing.

Bizzare is right. Your ex couldn’t accept or admit to how a certain relationship was crossing the line and this would only cause more problems in the future. Don’t think of this as a boyfriend lost, think of it as all the MESS you’ve avoided which at this point in time seems inevitable.

Good riddance, girl.

I agree that this could become a problem but first of all I think you should ask yourself how much of a problem this really is. For starters most of us need a best friend outside of a relationship. Secondly unlike most men he has this huge female influence on his life as opposed to a “Jack the Lad” type mate. This could mean that you have someone very understanding and special here.