I currently work for a place that pays me about half of what the average CNC Machinist at my level of experience makes. However, I have not looked elsewhere for a job, even though I see placed that start at 150–200% of my current wage hiring like mad.
You may think me crazy, but here is the deal. Like many people, I have a list of things I look for in a job. Pay is definitely on there, but so are things like security (my current employer has never laid people off while the last place that paid me average wages laid me off after a month), and the work environment.
I can give my supervisor the finger and he will just laugh and call me an asshole; try that where you are! Can you call the VP/co-founder of your place of employment by their first name without getting reprimanded for a lack of respect? If you need a day or a week…or a month off because you need a day/week/month, will there be any repercussions beyond lost wages if you lack the vacation/sick time to cover it?
See, I am quite severely underpaid, but that is the only thing I don’t like about my job. I never dread going in. I don’t fear my superiors. I don’t worry about being let go. I still make enough to pay the bills, and I don’t have to spend any of that on therapy or anti-anxiety meds. I do what I love (playing with computers and making stuff) in a relaxed environment full of people I get along with, and that more than offsets the fact that I should be earning more since if I worked almost anyplace else, I would be willing to take a pay cut to enjoy the benefits I do now.
You are like my step-father; you wear Golden Handcuffs. He was roped into a job he felt neutral about working for people he hated simply because he was earning ~$100K/yr. I earn around $20K/yr, yet I am far happier at my job than he ever was at his.
My uncle is another example. He spent many years in a commercial kitchen because he loved to cook. In his early-40s, he burnt out and decided to go with jobs that used his mechanical aptitude; building superintendent, furnace repair, etcetera. Sure, it meant his real estate agent wife had to pick up the slack due to the pay cut, but he was so happy to be out of the kitchen that he could finally actually enjoy cooking dinner for his family.
So tell us; what are your priorities?