I know this question is old, but I am going to respond anyways….
A public school is public, not private….they don’t have the right to privacy in a school. There is a time and place for everything and that includes having self control and not being overly affectionate in a public place. Holding hands, peck on the lips is fine.
Groping, feeling each other up….sucking face (french kissing), save it for when you are by yourselves. In this case, the people in question have no right to moan about their privacy.
On the other hand, I believe the principal was wrong for posting the names, I don’t believe it was an invasion of privacy, because it is quite obvious, these children didn’t care about privacy and who seen them, when showing affection in the classroom and hallway. I do believe it was wrong by being demeaning. It wasn’t necessary to share it with the whole school. Our children go through enough on a daily basis with being bullied, humiliated and being harrassed in the schools, this just added flames to the fire to give other children the right to demean and harrass.
As, for the parents being told, that’s an iffy too. Some parents would have a good intelligent talk with their child. Other parents would probably make it all about them, about how much the child has humilated them etc. Parents and adults can be just as immature as their child. Myself personally, I’d talk to my child about how one should behave in public and how others don’t want to see these type of affections etc. and not make it about me.
But, inside me all the while I would be thinking & thanking my lucky stars, I didn’t get a call about my child abusing drugs, stealing from somone, cheating or being violent.
I think the principal went a bit over the top, by posting the names publically, it wasn’t anyones business, but the child, the principals and the parents.
My father always told me, don’t do anything in your life that you will be embarrassed or ashamed about, and then come back and protest about it later…
actions = consequences.