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Do you have any meal suggestions for this very restricted diet?

Asked by bobbinhood (5898points) August 8th, 2011

My friend’s child has food allergies, so they are cutting a lot of things out of their diet. She has said that they will no longer be eating:

   • dairy (including eggs)
   • wheat (all breads, pastas, etc)
   • yeast
   • preservatives
   • food coloring
   • soy

She is having trouble coming up with meals that don’t include any of those items. She is especially having difficulty figuring out breakfasts. Any ideas or recipes would be greatly appreciated.

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Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Whole grain cereals that don’t include wheat with fruits is an option. As a vegan, we’re not into dairy, preservatives or food coloring either but that above diet is even more restrictive than ours, whew, it’s tough. I would advise that family to cut one of these things at a time to see what food the allergy is to, actually.

tom_g's avatar

Yikes. How about grilled air with a side of slivered air?

6rant6's avatar

If you want a wheat substitute, rice is good. I was allergic to wheat, and used rice noodles and rice flour a lot. For breakfast: rice cakes with peanut butter.

Soup for breakfast is good, too. You can blend a multitude of healthy vegetables in which kids will drink if the pieces they can see are things they’ve decided they like – like carrots.

There’s nothing to prevent someone pouring fruit juice over cereal instead of milk. Also there’s oatmeal. I’ve never found a milk substitute I liked, but again, fruit juice works.

28lorelei's avatar

Hmm…
Fish, meat and vegetables always work. Just go to the meat or fish section and grill something in the oven. You don’t need to add anything.
You can have bread or cereal that isn’t wheat, like rice or oats. And for milk you can have soy milk or rice milk.

SpatzieLover's avatar

Welcome to the diet of all autistic kids. Yes, I can help. Whole foods or a similar store is going to be needed for some of the ingredients.

New staples:
*Almond butter
*Sunflower butter
*Rice Protein Powder
*Gluten free baking mixes
*Gluten free frozen foods (including waffles/french toast/english muffins/bagels/donuts/cookies) as a back up when your friend doesn’t have time to bake/cook Good brands in clude Kinnikinnic & Food For Life & Van’s

Can you tell me if the child has any sensory issues (especially with the gag reflex)? It would help to know if any consistencies are not tolerated.

Here’s a regular day of breakfasts at our home:
One ½ cup of Naked Green Machine juice served with vitamins added to the juice/probiotics, and all vitamin ills/allergy pill

One banana or one “banana yogurt” we keep lots of pureed baby foods to up the veg/fruit intake…and to allow us to have times off from making smoothies/juice if we’re on the run

One oat granola bar we use Barbara’s granola or a homemade type

One waffle, pancake or doughnut either homemade of from the freezer

Considering this is a daily part of our life, I can offer as much assistance as your friend needs @bobbinhood.

snowberry's avatar

There are many gluten free breads, pastas, and cookies available, as well as make-your-own recipes.

Preservatives are illegal in Japan, so I’m thinking you could purchase Japanese products with relative security, however you’ll have to be careful to watch for soy products. In general, you’ll want to make your own foods. Pure natural foods, such as fresh vegetables, fruits, and fresh meats are a good start. Don’t buy processed in any way, such as lunch meat, mayonnaise, etc.

Regardless, read labels on everything you buy. I’ve been doing it for years.

Tropical_Willie's avatar

Have the Dr recommend a GOOD Dietitian. Your friend is going to need help.
I was hyper-allergy kid at 3 years old. Rice and lamb was my meal all day long for a while. I could not have citrus either. My milk product was goat’s milk.

snowberry's avatar

You might also want to start shopping at a health food store. (Sometimes they even hold cooking classes for people on special diets.) Shopping online is another option, and if you buy in bulk from some websites, shipping is at a deep discount ($5, or free).

JLeslie's avatar

I make croquettes that are primarily potatoes with some tomato, onion, an recently I added some lentils to it, but my MIL makes it with tuna. Kids should like them, kind of a healthier potato latka, and taste more like an entree.

Simple dishes with meat, veggies, rice, potatoes, rice noodles should all work well.

They should flip through some vegan cookbooks to get some ideas. Also ethnic dishes from Asian cuisine might provide some variety. Mexican also, corn tortillas, beans, rice, etc.

Many times cornstarch can be used in lieu of eggs in various dishes.

Babycakes brownies are fantastic and vegan, gluten, and soy free. Consider their cookbook for desserts. The brownies were voted best in NYC several years ago against all brownies, and they deserved the recognition.

Judi's avatar

One saving grace is that the child doesn’t have a corn allergy. With corn subsidies it is practically impossible to find any processed products without corn in them. My grandson is allergic to corn, eggs and peanuts and the corn is the hardest to avoid.

SpatzieLover's avatar

@snowberry Yes, Amazon is our friend. We order cases of bars, baking mixes/ingredients that are difficult to find elsewhere.

@bobbinhood Another tip: about 80% of people that have trouble digesting wheat, also have trouble with corn.

We feed a diet free of corn, casein, wheat, gluten, dye, soy, & most dairy to our son. We have found that it is best to be prepared prior to any outings. Our son is quite accustomed to bringing his lunchbox and cooler along where ever we go for errands, out to eat as a family, or to a gathering.

Your friend will either need to educate herself with many books, or get to a dietician to help pull meal plans together.

marinelife's avatar

For breakfast:
Puffed rice cereal with almond milk
peanut butter toast made with wheat-free bread.

For dinner:
steak or hamburger with mashed potatoes and a vegetable
spaghetti using zucchini ribbons as pasta

snowberry's avatar

I consider coconut butter a real treat. Try it on wheat free toast or bagels. I used to hate coconut until I tasted this. http://www.artisanafoods.com/products/coconut-butter

nikipedia's avatar

I’ll second the mentions above about gluten free products. One of my coworkers has a gluten intolerance, and she was just mentioning that there are so many substitutes available these days that it’s hardly a problem. (I have another coworker who has a dairy intolerance, and I don’t eat meat, so feeding all of us gets tricky. I’m serving burritos at a dinner party with them tomorrow!)

Sounds like what the kiddo needs is a ton of fresh fruits and vegetables. I’m a big fan of roasted veggies for dinner—squash, sweet potatoes, brussels sprouts, cherry tomatoes, broccoli, and asparagus are all good for that purpose. Fruit salads, or fruit + oatmeal could be good for breakfast.

SpatzieLover's avatar

My son loves Almond & Rice bites and doesn’t mind coconut ice cream, milk and yogurts at all…The same is not said of all of the rice milk products :(

Much money has been spent on trying what’s out on the market. There are many gluten-free bakeries and small deli/stores popping up here.

bobbinhood's avatar

You guys are amazing! Thank you so much for all of your help. Keep sending suggestions, and I’ll keep passing them on.

@tom_g I agree. When I heard her restrictions, my head spun. I’m so grateful for people here that have experience and ideas.

tom_g's avatar

Actually, @bobbinhood, that was a poor attempt at sarcasm. I’m really awful at it, and not funny. I need to stop. I saw “very restricted diet” and didn’t find it that restrictive at all.

bobbinhood's avatar

@tom_g I see. You eat very differently from most people I know if you don’t think that diet is particularly limiting (probably a good thing given the diets of most people I know). Thank you for clarifying. Do you have any suggestions besides air? :P

Kardamom's avatar

The parents should definitely talk to the doctor and allergist and a registered dietician to find out what foods are allowed then you can get back to us with that list. I’m guessing that there might be other no-no’s on the list that were not mentioned, such as peanuts (most kids that have severe food allergies are also allergic to peanuts) I’m guessing that the child is not a vegetarian or vegan, is that correct? If not, then meat, fish and fowl should be OK, right? Just let us know so we can hone in our suggestions.

In the meantime, there are lots of pretty tasty milk substitutes on the market right now. One that I tasted recently is coconut milk (which is made from coconut, but is not the same thing as canned coconut milk that is used in Thai cooking that is super thick and sweet, this stuff is more like soy milk, but is completely soy and dairy free and tastes fantastic. I tried the unsweetened kind) There is also rice milk (which I think tastes the most like dairy milk and doesn’t have any after taste or other flavors, which the others kind of do, which is fine, but just a note) and almond milk and hazelnut milk (which is really luscious on cereal or with coffee and tea, just so the parents know) and hemp milk (which is very good for you, but I found to have a really weird flavor, but some people like it). Most of these milk substites come in plain flavor, which is the most milk-like, or in flavors mostly vanilla and chocolate or sometimes strawberry or coffee flavors. And most of the companies that make the milk substitutes, also make ice cream substitutes as well.

Your list didn’t include any fruit, but again, lots of kids with severe allergies are allergic to citrus, so I won’t even bother with that. But other fruits (fresh, dried, dehydrated, cooked and juiced) would probably be OK. There is a company that makes these nifty dehydrated fruits that are crispy, rather than chewy, and have no added sugar or anything else that kids seem to love. Here’s a picture of the just strawberries. The same company also does this with some veggies. I found them at Whole Foods.

There are also lots of fruit items that are similar to applesauce (which should be OK). Maybe mom and dad can make their own fruit sauces rather than trying to find jarred sauces that may have additives. Here’s a recipe for Apple Peach Sauce. And here’s one for Strawberry Apple Sauce

Most kids like apples, pears, grapes, berries, bananas, pineapple, apricots, mangoes and even coconut (the unsweetened kind) once they get used to it. So mom and dad might want to consider buying a dehydrator, but remind them that fruit can be prepared in all sorts of ways, including grilling, pureeing for popsicles, juicing, freezing (which is especially nice with grapes) and made into ice cream using the milk substitutes. An ice cream machine would be another good kitchen gadget to buy. And a good food processor or blender. Here’s a neat recipe for Grilled Fruit Skewers (Note: they now make non-dairy sour cream substitutes) but you can also use non dairy, non soy Yogurt such as this brand made with coconut milk, or this Yogurt made with rice.

There are plenty of bread (and tortilla and chips and crackers and pasta) made from non wheat, non soy ingredients. Whole Foods usually carries them and so do most other health food-style stores. Even Trader Joe’s has some products (especially chips) that are made from other ingredients like beans and sweet potatoes. Just make sure the parents check the ingredients lists carefully.

And of course there’s always vegetables. If you introduce lots of new vegetables (multiple times) and let the kids help in deciding which ones to choose, kids can and do learn to love veggies, especially when they grow veggies in their yard or when they go often to the Farmer’s Market or even the regular grocery store. And take the kids to a trip to an organic farm so they can see where food comes from. When kids are involved in the growing, shopping for, and preparing of food, it becomes a lot easier to convince them to eat certain foods that are good for them and to avoid foods that are bad for them (for whatever reason).

Most kids seem to like carrots, celery, lettuce, sweet potatoes and corn (which we have yet to determine if that’s OK) but when you let kids become involved with the planting, shopping and food prep, and you regularly introduce kids to new foods, they’ll acquire a taste for all kinds of things. If the parents have a well stocked Asian market near their house, they should check out the produce section. They tend to have much better prices and lots of delicious items that you don’t see in regular grocery stores. I went into one a few months back and found the mother lode of mushrooms. I think a lot of American kids think that mushrooms are icky, simply because they’ve only had the squishy canned kind, but most kids in Asian countries (or Asian kids who’ve grown up with Asian cuisine in the US) love mushrooms, because they’re simply a staple in Asian cooking. Mushrooms are one of the most nutritious foods in the world, so a trip the Asian grocery store should be in this family’s future. There are so many nifty shrooms it will make your head spin and shrooms can be put in all sorts of dishes from pizza, to pasta, grilled, fresh, put in soups and put on salads. These King Trumpet Mushrooms are very mild tasting and they’re huge! Usually about 8 inches tall and can be used in anywhere that schrooms are called for, and they’re simply hilarious to look at. Then there’s the little bitty Enoki Mushrooms that are super cute, very delicate and best eaten raw in a salad or floated on top of a soup. Then there’s the super versatile and extremely meaty tasting (umami is the term for that flavor) Shiitake Mushrooms which are great on pizza, stir fried, baked in with Italian pasta dishes, grilled on the barbecue and made into soup. And of course, don’t forget those big ol’ Portobello Mushrooms which make great burger substitutes when grilled on the barbecue, and they can be stuffed and chopped up for soups. Here’s an easy Clear Broth Mushroom Soup and here is a non-dairy Cream of Mushroom Soup and here is a recipe with variations for Thai-syle chicken, mushroom and coconut milk soup called Tom Kha Gai (once the kiddies develop a taste for this soup, they’ll be hooked on it)

The next item on the list should be beans. Beans of all kinds from black beans to kidney beans, to Great Northern beans, to lentils, to garbanzo beans, to pinto beans, to black eyed peas and butter beans. Most kids like beans in burritos and they like baked beans and beans with weiners. And beans can be made into all sorts of soups and chili and thrown into salads and sandwich spreads. Here’s a recipe for White Bean and Chicken Chili and here’s’ one for Black Bean and Turkey Chili and here’s one for Beef, Kidney Bean and Pumpkin Chili Here’s an easy recipe for Hummus And if the parents are looking for a super-healthy yummy snack idea here is a recipe with 15 different flavor combinations for Roasted Chickpeas and here’s a crock pot recipe for Vegetarian Baked Beans

Of course there are a bunch of different grains available for baking or using in other recipes such as soups and salads such as quinoa, oats, barley, rice, wild rice which is actually a different thing than regular rice, amaranth, spelt and buckwheat (which is unrelated to wheat) Here is a site that describes the multitudes of Non Wheat Flours

Here’s a few grain recipes. I just found a recipe for Tabouli that uses rice instead of bulgur wheat. Here’s one for Garden Rice Salad or this Fried Rice Salad with Sesame Dressing or this Barley Vegetable Salad or this Spicy Quinoa with Cucumbers and Tomatoes or this Southwest Brown Rice and Black Bean Salad

Don’t forget about nuts (but find out if nuts of any kind are on the OK list). Some kids with peanut allergies forgo all nuts because most of them are processed in facilities where peanuts are also processed.

Here are a few products that I like that have no dairy. I’ve checked on a few websites to determine that Smart Balance Light Buttery Spreads do not contain any dairy. A reply from the company is below .

*All Smart Balance Light spreads are vegan along with Smart Balance Organic
Whipped Spread and Earth Balance Non-GMO All Natural Buttery Spread.
Joan Dippolito
Consumer Relations
GFA Brands Inc.*
_________________

I was not able to find a jarred vegan mayonaise substitute that didn’t contain soy. But this recipe for Vegan Mayo is made with white beans and can be used on sandwiches, mixed in with other ingredients for a dip, and added to potato salad (and would probably taste good on baked potatoes or sweet potatoes). Oh guess what, it turns out that Vegenaise actually makes a soy free vegan mayo!

Tahini (which is similar to peanutbutter in texture, but made with pureed sesame seeds) is a great flavoring agent for all sorts of things. It is one of the main ingredients in hummus, but it can also be used to make salad dressings and other kinds of dips.

I have not tasted this, but I’ve heard it’s quite tasty, Galaxy Brand Rice Cheese that is both dairy free and soy free.

And here is a recipe for Flaxseed Egg Replacement to use in baking. This site also talks about eggless cooking in general, and vegan baking and talks about the virtues of flaxseeds, which are loaded with Omega 3 Fatty acids that everybody needs.

There’s a bunch of websites dedicated to helping parents cook for children with food allergies like This One so just go online until you find one or a few that the parents like.

And don’t forget, just because it’s morning, doesn’t mean you have to eat traditional breakfast foods. Howzabout a baked sweet potato with a dollop of rice or soy yogurt and a handful of those freeze dried strawberries? Or maybe a rice-cheese quesadilla (on a rice flour tortilla) with a dollop of home made guacamole and fresh salsa. Or maybe a steaming bowl of white bean soup with a crunchy toasted piece of non wheat bread. Or a crunchy rice cake spread with hummus and and a side of garlic marinated carrots or other pickled veggies. Or a rice cake spread with spicy black bean dip and a side of crispy sweet potato chips. Of course there’s always cream of rice cereal and oatmeal and Chinese Rice Congee (which is a traditional Chinese breakfast porridge) And if we determine that corn is OK, then a big breakfast with hot corn bread smothered with jam with a side of butter beans or refried beans and a side of Breakfast Potatoes or Potatoes O’Brien or even mashed potatoes with Smart Balance Light Buttery Spread or even gravy.

Sorry this post is so long, but I just love looking up recipes and I’ve tried quite a few vegetarian/vegan products so I just wanted to share what I knew. Hopefully something here will be of use. Please check back in if you can get a list of foods that are OK and foods that we might have discussed that are on the Banned List and then we’ll go from there. : )

Neizvestnaya's avatar

puffed rice
bran flakes
oatmeal
grits
Kasha
White beans cooked all kinds of ways
Rice milk
Almond milk
Potatoes & yams fixed all kinds of ways
Bananas & plantains
Nuts
Baked pumpkin sliced

laureth's avatar

A treasure trove of recipes will be found at Living Without Magazine. They feature all kinds of ideas for people who can’t eat one or more of the common allergens.

snowberry's avatar

I haven’t read all the answers here, but in case someone hasn’t mentioned it, the kids will have fun watching quinoa cook. It starts out looking like little white seeds, and then when they cook, they open up and look like commas (like this: ,). Quinoa tastes pretty good too, and you can use it like any other grain- in soups, plain with butter, etc.

JLeslie's avatar

I just noticed no yeast. That is a real drag. If they want a bread or cracker they should check out the Jewish section. Matzah obviously has no yeast, and there should be some other “breads.” there is a such thing as gluten free Matzah, it might not be easily available in your market though.

Also, I had suggested Asian food, which many times has a lot of soy sauce, they can just substitute salt. And they should look at cookbooks for Celiacs disease. Morever, there is a celiac’s passover book I think? Which should meet many of the criteria for your friends diet.

bobbinhood's avatar

@Kardamom I’m pretty sure the child can eat everything besides what was listed above. Also, the family is not vegetarian or vegan. Fortunately, they already believe in healthy eating, so eating lots of fruits and vegetables isn’t unusual for him.

@laureth I was looking at that website. Is there a way to search the website by listing all of the allergens?

laureth's avatar

@bobbinhood – Unsure. I’m more familiar with the paper-and-ink magazine.

Kardamom's avatar

@bobbinhood The only reason I’ve listed some items that were vegetarian or vegan is because those types of products either do not contain eggs or don’t contain dairy, which are 2 of the things that you listed on the banned list.

I’m still a little bit concerned about corn. Someone mentioned that often a person with a wheat allergy will also have a corn allergy.

Also concerned about nuts. Most people with severe allergies are deathly allergic to peanuts. One of my good friends has that problem and she cannot even eat other nuts due to the fact that peanuts are processed on the same equipment.

If you could find out for sure, that would be very helpful.

In the meantime here’s some more ideas:

Dips and Spreads

Black Bean Dip

White Bean Dip

Red Kidney Bean Dip

Salsa Verde

Black Eyed Pea Salsa

Mint Cilantro Chutney

Coconut Chutney

Tamarind Chutney

Vegan Pesto

Mango Salsa

Cranberry Salsa

Pineapple Salsa

Salads

Vietnamese Rice Noodle Salad

Sweet Potato Salad with Blueberry Vinaigrette

Vegan Picnic Potato Salad

Red Potato Salad With Vinaigrette Dressing

Root Vegetable Salad with Pickled Garlic

Golden Beet Salad with Ginger Garlic Dressing

Raw Brussels Sprouts Slaw with Apples and Walnuts

Raw Sweet Potato Slaw with Ginger and Lime Juice

Soup

Potato Leek Soup

Fresh Tomato Soup

Greek Lemon Chicken Soup

Italian White Bean and Escarole Soup with Pancetta

Beef Barley Soup with Mushrooms

Curried Pumpkin Soup

Entrees

Thai Seafood Hotpot

Grilled Fish Tacos with Chipotle Lime Dressing (Note: you can use vegan sour cream or use the soy-free Vegenaise mayo in place of the regular sour cream in the dressing)

Chicken Enchiladas

Salmon Burgers (Note: if you can’t find a suitable bun, this burger can be served in a leaf of lettuce, or over a bead of Basmati rice instead)

Crock Pot Pulled Pork Sandwiches (Note: if you can’t find a bun that is suitable, you can serve this over basmati rice instead).

Chicken Mole

Vegetarian Fresh Spring Rolls (Note: the sauce listed in this recipe uses soy sauce, substitute this sauce or this sauce)

Fresh Spring Rolls With Shrimp

Vegetable Handroll Sushi

Fish Handroll Sushi

Jerk Chicken

Pad Thai

Ginger Chicken with Rice Noodles

Side Dishes

Carrot and Parsnip Puree (Note: substitute Smart Balance Light Buttery Spread for the butter)

Whole Roasted Cauliflower with Lemon Vinaigrette and Capers

Barbecue Beans

Zesty Roasted Rutabagas and Carrots

Balsamic Roasted Brussels Sprouts with Garlic”:http://theathletesplate.com/balsamic-and-garlic-roasted-brussel-sprouts/

Chana Daal

Madras Lentils

Chana Masala

Sweet Potato Fries

Baked Kale Chips

Homemade Beef Jerky

SpatzieLover's avatar

I agree with @Kardamom, that vegan recipes will be the easiest to find and alter for this child’s allergies.

Another tip I thought of just this AM while getting my son ready for the day: If they don’t already have it, they will need to buy natural toothpaste. If their child is picky, Tom’s of Maine has a variety of flavors. My son likes Silly Strawberry

The parents may want to invest in taking their son to a DAN! (defeat Autism now) doctor in their area. One that comes highly recommended from the local Autism chapter in their region. Usually, these doctors are not covered by insurance, but the tips they give can be life transforming. The DAN! doctor will know of a good nutritionist to send them to. One that is accustomed to making meal plans for children and families going through this type of change.

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