@JLeslie I have never been any religion and neither have my parents (and neither were my grandparents on both sides). We didn’t call it agnosticism back in the day, we just were not any religion, but we did and still do celebrate Christmas and Easter, although I had no idea that Easter was a religious holiday at all, until I was in 3rd grade and somebody at school mentioned it. Our family always got together on Easter and we just thought it was a marvelous and fun spring time tradition. We do up Christmas like it’s going out of style, but we don’t go to church and his has nothing to do with religion for us. It’s a family tradition.
I always knew what Christmas was about, and when I was really, really little, I guess I considered myself to be a Christian, only because everyone else around me said they were Christians (except for my immediate family and my grandparents), although nobody that I knew went to church (although plenty of those same people do now, which I think is rather odd).
My father’s ancestors from about 4 generations back came from what is currently France (the Alcace Lorraine area) but was considered part of Germany when my ancestors lived there. My mother’s ancestors came to the US even longer ago than that. They came from somewhere in England, don’t even know where, but they ultimately came to California by way of Oaklahoma during the dustbowl era. But as far as I know, those people didn’t follow any particular religion either, but they may have been Baptists, only because the few cousins and relatives that I have that claim a religion are Baptists.
One of my good girlfriends in junior and senior high school was Jewish and she introduced me to a few of the foods, like kugle and we liked to have lunch at one of the few Jewish delis in our town. But she absolutely loved Christmas music and she would put up blue tinsel garland and Star of David in the back of her car for Hannukah. It used to crack me up. She really loved all of the accoutements of Xmas, but she didn’t want to piss her mom off, who grew up in a Kosher household (from Philadephia). My friend came over to our house one year and helped us decorate our Xmas tree and she had so much fun. She especially loved it when I told her that we had to replace one of the wise men in our Nativity Scene because my dog had eaten Melchior (or was it Gaspar?). She subsequently invited me over for the lighting of the menorrah on Hannukah, but I laughed (inside) when I realized that their whole tradition only lasted about 5 minutes. They lit the candles, mumbled a prayer under their breath and blew out the candles. Then it was over. They didn’t go to Temple or anything like that, so they were kind of like our family in that we were really aganostic. They were Jewish, but not really practicing.
My friend’s mom absolutely loved me, which is surprising, because I’m a blonde haired shicksa looking person. She used to always get her metaphors mixed up and one of my favorites was when she said, “I’ve got more intelligence in my little finger than than all the tea in China.” said whilst waving her pinky finger at us (said in a thick Philly accent).