NSFW Ladies are the sounds you make in bed to please your partner or because you are having the time of your life?

both.

My input is actually what makes women moan. : )

I use noises to let him know that what he is doing at the time works! I could easily have sex without making a noise, it doesn’t mean I enjoy it any less but I find a few moans to be a good communication tool without using words.

@mazingerz88 would hope thats the case lol

@BeccaBoo Haven’t read the article yet but I’m now searching Google for an authentic female moan indicator device or an iPhone App just for the same purpose from iTunes.

I had an ex who straight up told me that she couldn’t orgasm from actual intercourse, but used vocalization to indicate what she liked when having sex. When she actually did orgasm from foreplay, the moans and groans weren’t as pronounced as when she faking (or directing if you like).

I’m actually pretty silent when I orgasm. Vocalizing during intercourse helps my hubby climax and I do everything I can to help :-)

@tranquilsea thats exactly what the article was saying. Its funny because in my house not getting to personal, but my man is silent (I mean nothing not even a grunt) and i have never been with anyone like that before!

@mazingerz88 you gotta add the link here for me. but how are you going to tell if its real or not? I mean some women are great fakers!

@BeccaBoo I maxed out on my questions for today. Wonder if I could impose on you to ask this question, “NSFW-Ladies and gents how many orgasms do you prefer to give and get during a single encounter?” or something like that. Or has that been asked before? Lol. Thanks!

With regards to your last post, feel out the muscle movement and level of secretion?

Essentially what @Leanne1986 said. I could really really enjoy sex and not need to scream to prove it. But I do think moans are sexy, even if they aren’t solely generated on the heat of the moment. And silent sex is kind of eerie. Though I do sometimes find, that if I’m on the verge of an orgasm, I have to shut up or else I get distracted.

@mazingerz88 Oh please!!!!! :-P

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Q: NSFW Ladies are the sounds you make in bed to please your partner or because you are having the time of your life?

You left out pain, cramp, and fustraition. I’m just going with what I know

@BeccaBoo Seriously, moans could be faked but not actual secretions and that tightening of the muscles indicating an orgasm. Wait. Am I right or do I need to hit the books again? : )

A little of both. I never climax during intercourse, and my hubby is used to it. Actually, I think that takes some of the pressure off of him to make sure that I climax. But I do still make breathy sounding moans and whimpers to let him hear that it feels good.

I make noises regardless of whether or not its my hand or I am with a partner so I know my noises have nothing to do with my partner. They are more of an expression of my enjoyment then anything else. Too bad article you can’t make an assumption on everyone.

I usually don’t notice the sounds I make until someone told me he was pretty sure I woke up my neighbors. Oops.

Because I’ve watched way too much porn

@redfeather I was told the same thing by an ex, so I know what you mean and I had know I idea I was so loud…. lol

Yeah, no. Come one, Daily Fail. I’m always vocal, even if I’m not having a good time (because the decibel level is how to tell if I’m having a good time, not the amount of sounds). But I can’t turn it off, I’ve tried, and if you’re bothered by it, you either should find another partner or find some way to keep me quiet.

@mazingerz88 The level of secretion isn’t really a good way to tell unless your with a partner who’s really regular in the amount of liquid she gives at various times, and you know exactly how much she always secretes when orgasming. But like me, I’m sort of all over the place, sometimes I most wet when I’m not really that turned on at all. I have no idea why. Vaginal contractions, you can totally fake if you’re paying attention.

My noise is reflective of the great pleasure I’m experiencing and sharing. We have quiet times when others are awake and we have anything goes noises when alone. I know making noise is an issue for some guys because they don’t want to sound like grunting cavemen or they think women will think they’re having sex but “not making love”. My guy was a lot quieter our first year together than he is going into year #3 which makes me believe he’s relaxed, he’s letting himself get more out of the experiences.

I can’t help but make noise when something (sexual or not) feels good to me. I’ve never faked sexual noises for my SO; I’ve never had to. Our neighbors are not too happy with us.

It’s part of the sharing experience.

Ooohhhh, yeah. That’s really, OH MY GOD. That’s good. Oh yes. Oh God yes. That is sooo hot. Mmmmm… good.

Good question @BeccaBoo. Was it good for you too?

I’m pretty quiet in bed actually. If I make noise, it’s not intentional. I find other ways to please my partner rather than fake it lol.

Or the sounds they make playing tennis – are they the same in bed? Maria Sharapova comes to mind.

There is certainly a bit of arousal that take place in getting an additional reinforcement that what you and your partner are doing is giving pleasure to the both of you.

I moan when he does something to make me moan! I won’t put on a show for him, But when it’s good, he really knows about it.