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(NSFW) Would this annoy you?

Asked by Eggie (5926points) August 16th, 2011

I have heard from some women that when a guy starts sucking their breasts that they only pay attention to the nipples and not the other parts. In that conversation, I have learnt that some women find that annoying….is this true?

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redfeather's avatar

For me, those get overlooked and I get annoyed.

deni's avatar

Yes that does annoy me. My entire boob is sensitive, just in a different way, but I like it being touched just as much as the nipple. There is such thing as nipple overkill.

Blackberry's avatar

As opposed to sucking the entire breast lol!? I’ve tried before, and it’s difficult, but fun. I can see that being annoying, though. It would be annoying to have only the tip of shaft sucked (lol!).

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redfeather's avatar

I usually try and lead them back there…

XOIIO's avatar

I go for everything, I wont go into my technique though XD

Jude's avatar

The nipples are where it’s at, for me. I’m cool with it. (slapping them whilst sucking and licking is fun, though).

rebbel's avatar

“I have heard from some women that when a guy starts sucking their breasts”
How do they do it…, I can’t reach mine.

King_Pariah's avatar

I’ve never had this issue, after all it’s pretty difficult to leave a hicky on a nip. :P

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

It can be if it’s all that nurser knows how to do. XD

FutureMemory's avatar

Three cheers for tit sucking!

Blackberry's avatar

I tried to do another hip hip, but it won’t let me…..

Blackberry's avatar

Oh no you didn’t, Jude. Now I have to dance, and I’m alone and that makes it weird.

Jude's avatar

I’ll sit back and watch. <exaggerated wink>

jca's avatar

I like the entire breast treated equally, and each breast treated equally (in other words, don’t neglect either one, or the other one gets jealous).

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Yes, it would, a little.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

What @jca said.

Most importantly though, my nipples are not tuners for some space transmission. Do not twist or tug on them.

Blackberry's avatar

This is great advice. We should talk about sexual methods more on fluther.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

@King_Pariah: pinch or nip with the teeth are things that you do after sizing up the mood energy.

redfeather's avatar

I like pinches, bites, twists, pulls, etc. Different for everyone I suppose.

Blackberry's avatar

Oh man, I need a break from this thread, actually.

Jude's avatar

I have no feeling (turn-on) other than the nipples. Weird.

Blackberry's avatar

@Jude Huh? Are you sure?

Jude's avatar

I’m sure. The nipples are sensitive, but grabbing my tit does nothing for me.

Jude's avatar

But, go ahead and grab ahold when you’re doing the dirty, Yeehaw!

FutureMemory's avatar

I’d like to remind everyone that tomorrow is Wednesday…

Neizvestnaya's avatar

@FutureMemory: Really now? In wis.dm then we had “Boobs Wednesdays” but haven’t seen any such thing here in fluther.

FutureMemory's avatar

@Neizvestnaya I’m trying to get that started here on Fluther :)

jca's avatar

cold hands = extra exciting!

redfeather's avatar

@jca or ice in the mouth…

jca's avatar

mmmmm.

sliceswiththings's avatar

I barely have feeling in the nipples. You gotta squeeze the whole thing!

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

I find this very informative. I do like to kiss breasts all over, under and between. I nearly had a tragic misspelling of “under” where the ‘n’ was omitted and the ‘d’ was substituted! While avoiding handling the nipples too much or too intensely, I’m not clear what kind of manual handling is most desired other than gentle stroking of the breast.

Aethelflaed's avatar

I don’t have much sexy feeling in my nipples. It goes straight from “yeah, that’s not doing anything for me (more than any other random part of my body)” to “that kinda hurts”. So if you want to spend time there, do it for you, not for me; it’s not unpleasant unless you’re being pretty rough (because they aren’t radio tuners), but it’s not turning me on any more than when you kiss my rib cage (but I do enjoy the foreplay and a general “kiss you all over” attitude, so don’t ignore them and go straight for the pussy). I have, however, found that if I wear a really thin tshirt, and you suck them over the shirt (clean, obviously), that feels insanely good. I have no idea why they are so fickle!

wilma's avatar

What I don’t like is being kneaded like a big blob of bread dough.

My entire breast is sensitive to touch and kissing etc. The nipples seem to be the prize, but the rest likes attention too.

Blackberry's avatar

Lol…..Kneading dough…..I never thought of it that way.

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pezz's avatar

From a blokes point of view, it’s a basic instinct to aim for the nipple. It’s there from birth, so we just follow the urge. I think we need to retrain our minds. I for one am willing to try.

wilma's avatar

@pezz , practice, practice, practice…

Blackberry's avatar

I think some men go for the nipples also because we assume that’s where women want it. I wouldn’t initially expect the whole breast to get pleasure. Similar to kissing the lips, if one were to kiss above and below the lips, a person might say “wtf? my lips are right here…”.

redfeather's avatar

Mmmm noooo kiss my chin.

But no, not really. Haha

OpryLeigh's avatar

My nipples are the only sensitive part of my breasts so I am happy for my fella to spend as much time on them as he likes!

ucme's avatar

It’s funny, if I take a portion of breast other than the nipple in my mouth, I end up talking like Brando in The Godfather.

Blackberry's avatar

Lol….Wtf ucme?

redfeather's avatar

Next time anyone is near my chest I’m gonna picture them doing that and I’m gonna lose it.

Jude's avatar

^^ Yup. Chubby lost.

redfeather's avatar

yeah, by “it” I mean “lady boner”

ucme's avatar

@Blackberry Let’s just say it’s quite a mouthful!

Blackberry's avatar

I’m still laughing…...freakin hilarious…

King_Pariah's avatar

wow… just, wow…

ucme's avatar

seems to have created quite a stir, so many Godfather fans…...who’d a thunk it?

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