NSFW I'm confused about this even though we communicate openly.

Maybe you could just tell her that every once in a while, you’d like to have a blow-job only, and to completion. As a little treat, you know? Offer to do something just for her, occasionally, too.

Just had another thought… is there any chance that something in your diet or a medication has changed the taste of your ejaculate? If so, maybe that’s why she doesn’t like it anymore.

@augustlan mentioned diet or medication which is helpful. In the same vein, the hygiene of another can play a MAJOR role in one’s interest in doing any number of things.

Get a copy of Nancy Friday’s book Women on Top. It’s a little dated but a really good read for men to help them understand women a little better.

I also, like your partner, loves for my partner to cum inside me after oral sex. However, I agree with you that your partner should at least go down on you every once in a while, to mix things up. She shouldn’t do it as an obligation. I futher think she has some issues around her own desires and body since it took her so long to be okay with you going down on her.

@augustlan That’s a really great answer. I never considered how my blood pressure and other medications may have altered the flavour of my ejaculate. I must ask her!

@Kayak8 That’s a good general point but we are both very careful about showering well before sex, so personal hygiene is not the issue with us.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir She does have body image issues but she has a stronger sex drive than most people. After sixty, gravity kind of plays unkind tricks on bodies. Lovely, big boobs don’t point straight out like perky little ones in young women.
We both carry extra weight and she is very self-conscious about that. I adore her and her body and I tell her that. I also show it by touching and kissing even the areas like her tummy which for some reason she is convinced is ugly. I love and appreciate every part of her.

Besides that, the view of her face and her boobs is so amazing when she does take my cock in her mouth.

She adored the sensation of me going down on her from the first time. She still does not get it that I really love doing it. She can’t imagine why I do. I guess she always thought about “down there” as icky or distasteful.
I guess many women of her generation (and maybe later generations) grow up with negative ideas and feelings about their “private parts”.

@Boogabooga1 I know I am a very lucky man. She was already post-menopause when we met. She’s had a hysterectomy years earlier. She still has her ovaries but no uterus.
By the way, there is sex after babies although not frequently until they are all beyond the very needy baby stage.
You probably have a lot to look forward to because the sex drive of most women increases and peaks way later than that of men.
You too may be a lucky man if you don’t lose interest in her as a complete person. If you are consistently there for her as a companion, you will be her lover when she really starts warming up.

@Everybody Thanks for the great responses so far. I am open to any other ideas that Jellys may have.