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Jude's avatar

For those of you who don't have a S/O who partakes in Fluthering, how would you feel if they decided to get on here?

Asked by Jude (32207points) August 24th, 2011

I wouldn’t care for it, personally.

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Cruiser's avatar

It would not bother me at all though I would tone things down a notch! ;)

wilma's avatar

I would not want my SO to be on Fluther.
This is my free to be me anonymously place to hang out.

flutherother's avatar

I would feel uncomfortable about it and probably would stop using it.

Lightlyseared's avatar

Yeah… I wouldn’t like it.

Jellie's avatar

It would suck for me. Especially because on a different question I’ve admitted to being bored of him :P

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

My husband has a Fluther account, but he never uses it. I prefer that he doesn’t, but I can’t really imagine him being very interested, either. So I doubt it will happen.

jonsblond's avatar

I think I would quit if my husband found out about this place. :P

wundayatta's avatar

Do not want her seeing some of the things I say here. This is one of the few places I can say anything, and it won’t get back to me in the real world. If she were to get on fluther, that would be pretty bad.

SpatzieLover's avatar

I’ve invited my husband and requested that he help a few jellies w/computer problems. He chooses not to come here on his own He’s not that social.

JLeslie's avatar

I’d love it.

marinelife's avatar

I would be fine with it. In fact, I have encouraged my SO to join, but he has no interest in it.

Judi's avatar

I have vented a few times I think, and it would probably make a difference in what I say. He really doesn’t get this addiction though.

beccagolling's avatar

It wouldn’t bother me. Although he never comes on anyway. Oh well.

tedd's avatar

Not only is my current SO on here, but two previous SO’s are.

Sometimes I fear they are conspiring against me….

cockswain's avatar

My wife has an account but hasn’t used it in a year. I wish she’d become a regular user again since she’s really funny and also knows a lot about a great many things.

stardust's avatar

But it’s mine….All mine Enough said

linguaphile's avatar

I would definitely not want my ex SO on Fluther. It’s been my source of support and sanity for the last 6 months—I don’t want to lose that!!

cockswain's avatar

@linguaphile Oh, totally agreed on ex-SOs. They generally rank among the worst people in the world. Who wants to ever see those people again? Not this guy.

tedibear's avatar

Considering some of my questions that involve him, and some of my answers that have involved him, I don’t think it’s such a good idea. I feel like this is my place to babble and kvetch and if that includes him, that’s my business. He has mentioned that I should join the anime website that he frequents, but it doesn’t interest me.

CaptainHarley's avatar

Well, since she’s almost as Libertarian as I am, she would probably be attacked just as often, and then I would have to spend most of my time defending her. Sigh!

downtide's avatar

I’d rather he didn’t, but it would be extremely unlikely for him to consider it. He doesn’t like social websites, and he’s severely dyslexic. Having stuff modded and sent back to him would put him off.

Brian1946's avatar

I’d like it. She’s a curious woman and she’d probably get some good answers here to some of her questions.

However, since she still thinks the name of this site is Flooder, she might have trouble finding it. ;-p

Berserker's avatar

I don’t have anyone now, but when I did, I tried to get him to join. He didn’t seem interested, but he just blamed it on his poor English skills. Which is crap, because he’s way better with English than I am, and he knew it. Still, wasn’t gonna force him lol.

Now that I think of it though, it may not have been all that awesome. :/ I get too personal on here. But that was back when I first joined, so…he didn’t wanna join AnswerBag either, but then I don’t blame him for that. XD

Sunny2's avatar

I’d feel like he was invading my territory. I’ve read him some of the questions and answers and he was amused, but he has no interest in getting involved. He’s kind of a computer phobic, so I think I’m safe. I wouldn’t feel I could say whatever I wanted, if he was here too. Not that he’s judgmental, but I feel that he is.

Blondesjon's avatar

Fuck that. Who wants the joy sucker hangin’ with ya in Fun Town?

dogkittycat's avatar

I wouldn’t want my SO too be on fluther simply because some of the questions I’ve answered reference ex’s of mine and he would get upset that I even think about them. What can I say he has his time and activities, I don’t particually care for him infringing on mine.

OpryLeigh's avatar

I am glad he’s not on here.

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