How can I ''pleasure myself'' less [NSFW]?
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August 26th, 2011
Alrighty. Feeling kinda weird writing about this online, but, what the heck. I’m currently 16, and I can’t stop masturbating. I started out when I was, 10 or 11, not really sure and it doesn’t really matter. I can hardly go a day without doing it.
And I’m not saying like, once a day. More like 4–5 times a day. If I somehow take a day off, by being occupied with some other stuff [so much that I don’t have the time to masturbate], I pretty much make up for it the next day.
I just can’t help myself. I personally think there is nothing wrong with doing ‘it’, but doing ‘it’ a few times per day is pretty much exhausting, and boring to be honest. It gets even more boring when you get to the part when you masturbate no matter what time of day it is. [6AM or 6PM]
Did anyone else go through this? Is there any way to stop, or slow it down a bit?
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Everyone is different, but if it’s interfering with your life, you think it’s occupying your thoughts more than it should, or you focus on it for a long time afterwards if you choose not to masturbate then you should probably speak to your doctor about it. I’m not a dude, and a penis is easier to play with that often than a vagina, but I think it’s normal for teenagers to masturbate frequently. I think as soon as you recognize you’d like to do it less, and feel as though you can’t cut back it qualifies as a problem.
On another note, I applaud you on your ability to take stock of yourself and your actions at such a young age and express your feelings so well. Good luck, whether you play forever or decide you need assistance.
Welcome to Fluther where you can ask anything you want to and get an interesting answer.
To answer your question, I’ve always heard there’s no problem unless it’s preventing you from doing something else you should be doing. You could wear boxing gloves, I guess.
It is your age. You will naturally slow down when you get older and have actual sex with partners.
Just make sure that you are not masturbating to stop other feelings (like to calm anxiety).
As for now, participate in sports. If you wear yourself out, you will be less likely to masturbate as much.
Thanks everyone. :) I’ll see what I can do. Thanks again, a lot.
Get a job! Be too busy to do it!
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