I find shy women (and men) incredibly sexy. Anyone else with me on this?

I wish more women were like that lol. It depends on how shy they are, though.

It depends on how quiet and shy they really are. I don’t like people who don’t communicate how they feel.

I don’t like pushy people of either sex, but really shy people don’t do much for me either.

Shy never did it for me…I like confident women.

I really find shy girls a turn on. But when it comes to men I don’t really like it. I mean it can be cute, but it just isn’t sexy for me.

Nope.

Define “shy”.

Do you mean something like “demure”, or do you find those with situational arousal (in the psychological sense) problems attractive?

No. Not at all.
A little shyness and humiilty when first getting to know someone is fine. But, in my experiences, many ( Note: I am NOT saying ALL) seemingly, shy types are, in reality, highly passive aggressive as time wears on.

I have zero interest in being the ‘leader’ in my relationships.

I prefer well rounded types that have good communication skills and do not make having a conversation or solving a problem like pulling teeth. haha

Shyness is somewhat annoying to me. I like bold people.

No. In my experience shy has meant revealed mostly two general scenarios and neither of them to my liking:

Shy is just the outer face for passive aggressiveness.

Shy is the safety armor of socially awkward or socially detached.

I’m really shy myself, although it may not appear as such on here. XD I guess opposites attract is a true thing, since my ideal mates are outgoing people who know the answer to everything and could take care of me lol. You and I might be a good match. :D

But yeah, I like those life of the party people rather than shy people. Another shy person and I would prolly just sit there, pretend to stare at something interesting and never speak to one another. I like people who can rile me up, or get me going somehow, and make it count. Guidance, security, interest.
I’m not saying a shy person can’t provide this, far from it. Also not saying that confident and hyper people are the only ones that can provide it. But from where I stand, I answer the question with how I feel, and maybe a tad experience on the side. XD

A little shyness can be attractive but total lack of self confidence is not.