NSFW I have to ask, ladies do you think we get more horny than men?
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September 9th, 2011
By this I mean I was just reading through some old fluther posts, and about girls masturbating. Now I know its not a subject we talk about, but I am quite upfront about my sexuality and although I realised this will be quite awkward for some to answer, if at all more than others, I am starting to realise that we (the female) maybe just as sexually demanding if not more so than a lot of males. It maybe the case that some of us just don’t vocalise it.
I know that if I don’t get my playtime with my man MORE than a few times a week (at least 5) then I get more aggressive and frustrated than he does, if he can’t do the business then I have to myself. Is this something that’s normal? I know we don’t generally voice about masturbation especially to others and its not a subject I have yet broached with my girlfriends (but I am so gonna now, can just see the coffee spluttered all over the kitchen walls and lots of coughing and shocked gasps….mwhahahaha) but I would like to road test it here.
So anyone going to be brave and share with me on this?
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Depends on the individual.
I’m sure some ladies get hornier than some men.
I don’t think we get any hornier, in general. I do believe it’s less of a hangup now to admit wanting sex than to kick back and wait for a male partner to bring it up. Also, I think guys have always suspected women play with themselves as much as they/guys do but we don’t boast or talk about it in the same way.
I know for myself, it’s closely tied to hormones and they fluctuate throughout the month. When I am in a relationship, sex is critical and I do get really horny and demanding. I am often more demanding sexually than the partner is able to provide. I would have sex several times per night if he were able to.
And how are we supposed to compare horniness in males and females?
“I am horny, very horny.”
– “Well, I am fucking horny”
“But I am much hornier than you….”
– “No, I am!”
Do women resort to “humping the cube”?
I know that I have never dated a man who could keep up with me in the bedroom. I have been told I am either killing them or that I am a nymph which has me perplexed because why don’t they give men these terms for enjoying sex.
—I’m liking everything about this question so far! And
g-d bless ya ladies!!—
There are lots of horny women but my guess is there are more “morny” men. Morny as in “more horny”. Yuck I know. : )
Let’s talk numbers here. How many times a day do you want sex enough to either masturbate or copulate?
Obviously there’s a lot of variation in both men and women. I think that sex drive is related to testosterone—certainly in men, but maybe in women, too?
The thing that kills me is how often a highly sexed person is paired with someone who isn’t much interested. Love likes to play tricks on us, I think. All I can say is where were @BeccaBoo and @creative1 before I met my wife? My life might have been very different had I met a woman like them.
Unless one’s a hermaphodite, or unless one goes from being a man one day, then a woman the next, this question can never be answered.
All I can say is testosterone is the driving force that determines how horny a person is. Both men and women make testosterone, but of course men make much more of it. With this in mind, one can guess which is the more hornier sex——in general that is.
An excellent video on the subject
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@rebbel Evidently, we need a unit for horniness. Any suggestions?
Can horniness be measured by the HornoWatt?
@ZEPHYRA The What??? I know I don’t go the other way at all not that that is a bad thing I am just one hundred percent hetrosexual. I believe mine is due to my higher than normal testoserone levels and I think hormones are to blame for most horniness.
@creative1 I think you are reading the “r n” as an “m”...
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