(NSFW) So, what gets you in the mood? (Details inside)
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September 10th, 2011
What gets you in the mood for sex? What are some things that lead to sex, for you?
Bold, confident and physically fit men are definitely a turn on for me. Throw in a little bit of soft music and a really ‘good’ conversation, you got me.
What are your thoughts?
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When I was young, it was always the signal from my body…all the rest was gravy. Pleasant but not a primary mood enhancer.
@Ayesha Well, I wonder what would happen if you find yourself surrounded by athletes! Heh.
My motors heat up with this.
@mazingerz88
I’ll make each one of ‘em scream like a little girl!
Hold it right there while I put away my barbell set and turn on some Barry White. I’ve been wanting to tell you that those are some fine shoes you’re wearing, and that fragrance is wonderful. Did I ever tell you about my trip to France…?
A comfortable room temperature, clean smelling bodies and clothes. Positive feelings going on, good times, laughing, smiling, cuddling. I like romantic settings, I like spur of the moment excitement but it all starts with believing my partner is really into me.
Soft music, candlelight, a real coal fire burning in the grate and snow falling outside.
1) Viewing the female form
2) Teasing verbal competition with an intelligent woman
@gailcalled What brand of “gravy” are you having this success with? Or is it homemade? Sex during Thanksgiving must have been mind blowing :D
[NSFW] I just want to yank a naked slave girl out of my cage, tie her on her back spread-eagle to my bed with her head hanging over the edge, do what I gotta do, then slap her back into the cage until I need to use her again…
@Ayesha – Walking into my bedroom and noticing the naked slave woman locked in my cage shivering and terrified at what I might be planning to do to her next.
@HungryGuy You should put this in one of your stories!
Or have you already?
@Ayesha – That general theme follows throughout most of my stories :-p
Handsome features, porn, and also dirtiness (Physically. Dirty, sweaty men just so attractive!).
When she whispers “get your pants off ” ;-)
Manly guys doing manly thing. Guys that play sports. And yes physicality is a big thing. Rolls of muscles and chiseled abs. Especially when they’re in a nice suit.
Intelligence, especially guys that are good at math.
A specific environment that gets me in the mood… outdoors + rain + hot boy
And ofcourse Dieux Du Stade
What gets me in the mood is making out. If I like a man and am physically attracted to him, and we start making out, I will warm up very quickly. Foreplay is next. Then I cannot resist!
The other person smiling.
@woodcutter: A metaphor, dear heart, for an unexpected windfall (usually financial).
4pm does it for me. Too bad the hubby doesn’t get home until 6pm lol.
Kiss on the lips is nice, a grab on the ass will get things going but when she charges me with a double leg take down move…game on! ;)
Becoming conscious…. except when it happens while I’m unconscious. There’s no great magic here. I’m easy.
I know it’s a female cliche but I need to feel emotionally connected and it needs to be not just in general but at the moment. So sharing something together, preferably something good but even something bad, that makes me feel connected with that person is the starting off point. Then I need to feel relaxed and in a good mood, not distracted.
After that it’s easy…..assuming the person is attractive to me because OTW it’s not happening no matter how good he is at foreplay or anything else! The way he smells, the taste of his kisses, and how he responds to me, looks at me, the way he understands whether to go fast or slow….
What gets me in a mood…a partner who i know has a huge sex drive but somehow he plays it cool. Like sex isnt even in his mind. Thats when i get in the mood…just makes me want to test his waters. :p
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