NSFW ( ! ) - Why exactly is french kissing a turn on?

The tongue has lots of nerve endings. Feels good. Plus, it’s dirty (sexy dirty).

@Jude Hit the head on the nail.

I have a very dexterous toungue XD

There are arousal spots all over everyone’s body, not just in the genitals. But it has to be done right.

@zenvelo True! I have this solo spot in my right cheek that when lightly, very lightly licked, sends my whole body trembling. Weird.

@mazingerz88 Now, thats the mouth cheek, right?

I second @Jude But sticky? no way… it’s pure lustful though. So good. Especially when french kissing leads to sex.

@XOIIO Yes. But a former gf has hers on a buttcheek.

Lets review, you say it is ”Sticky, slimy, squishy, squiggly, and squirmy”. When you think of it, the mouth is a very intimate place on the body. That is why we do not put our mouths on just anything or our lips anywhere, even if it has been where people we know well have put theirs, no without wiping it our cleaning it. How many people do you know will put anything into their mouths? You would have to have a real Jones off smoking or taking drugs to put your lips on a butt or a pipe some stranger or person you hardly knew has. To be invited to stick your tongue or invite some one to do the same to you has to mean in many cases, but not all, that they are somehow special or worthy of access, or to give you access. Sure, there are some people, who can french anyone on a dime with little thought, but most I know had to have a deeper bond, or feeling it was that attached emotion that made it so exciting more so than the physical act of swapping spit.

@Hypocrisy_Central Agree.

@mazingerz88 My reaction to that

For all the reasons you describe in your question…that and a little lip nibble thrown in for good measure…aaaah, Paris, merçi beaucoup!

What @Jude said.

Major turn on.

It can be soft and hard, fast or slow at will plus it’s nice and wet…what could be more fun and a total turn on??

@Cruiser Agreed.

@mazingerz88 Ever ask yourself why oral sex, giving and receiving, is so much fun?

@Adirondackwannabe Thing is I do have female friends who claim they only do oral just because their guys want it. But I think none of them doesn’t want it done to them. I’m sure there are women out there who refuse to because they find it unsavory, even unsanitary yet prefer to be in the receiving end. Can they be labeled selfish? I think not. I understand their sentiments.

But back to the tongue, yes, the soaking wet contact between human skin and whatever you call the tongue skin is quite explosive, never mind how it tends to look sometimes.

@mazingerz88 It’s wet, warm, and soft, plus to do it you have to let someone all the way into your personal space, so you really have to trust them. As for the oral, yeah, you have to be right at the areas that are used to get rid of bodily wastes. The tradeoff is that if you do it really well, you’ll win their undying gratitude, at least for awhile.