NSFW question for you if you're attracted to only one gender: do you ever have dreams about the gender you're not attracted to?

Do you mean normal dreams or wet dreams?

I mean wet dreams; I didn’t think I’d be allowed to say it in the question title so I did a little self-censoring.

This is such a good question. I’m kind of fascinated by people who are strictly attracted to one gender, so I’m really curious to see the responses here. GQ.

In my dreams I have sex with everybody and everything.
I am a mule and they also appear in the dreams.

I’m a male & i’m attracted exclusively to females.
Although I did dream of a fishing trip with my Uncle George, is that a wet dream?

Gay female and the men have no faces in my dreams. Just big dongs.

Oh wait. This sounds familiar, now that @Jude said something. I am not exclusively attracted to one sex, but the men in my fantasies & dreams don’t have faces, either. The women do.

[Straight] I’m often not myself in dreams, but I’ve never had one where I was attracted to a man.
Although, I’ve been a woman in my dreams attracted to another woman, does that count?

@ANef_is_Enuf The women are always cute and the sex, very intimate. The men are faceless and we just knock boots.

I’m a straight male, I don’t ever recall having a sexual dream with or about a man.

Male, attracted to females.

Nope. I’ve been a Kinsey 0 all my life and never had any kind of sexy dream (wet or dry) about another male. I once had a dream where I was a woman having sex with another woman, however.

Maybe I should ask Fluther what that means. Do we ever get dream interpretation questions? ~

@Jude @ANef_is_Enuf That’s interesting. Men and women always have faces in my dreams.
Animals are generally only silhouettes for me though, unless the animal is huge, with much detail.
(Ex: Me hounding a tiger the size of my garage for info regarding the theft of my pool. (I don’t even have a pool.))

@Prosb the men in my dreams have faces. The men in my sex dreams do not. It’s pretty much exactly as @Jude describes her experience.

@ANef_is_Enuf Oh I see, well, I’ll let you know if I have a wet dream involving men, and if I could remember if they have faces in it.

I have a rather peculiar answer to this question. I often have dreams that I am not the biological sex that I was born as. In those dreams, I have been in relationships with both men and women. But the same is not the case in dreams in which I am my biological sex.

A dream with Neffie and Seelix would be interesting. Just sayin’.

It’s always just about our dongs, isn’t it =(

I’m a man attracted to women and no, I haven’t, or if I did, I don’t remember.

Interesting question. I’m male and straight, and it’s always been women in those dreams.

But if I had dreamed about men I don’t think it would mean anything really, it just hasn’t happened yet. I am pretty damn straight so maybe that is ‘confirmation’, I dunno.~ I’ve had at least one wet dream that I can remember where I wasn’t attracted to the woman so much but… that’s about it. I have plenty of sex in non-wet dreams though and yes always women never men. But really so what? I mean they are just dreams…

I can, of course, only speak for myself, but I (a woman) am emotionally attracted to several of my female friends. However, the thought of being with them physically turns my stomach. I think that homosexuality is normal for some people, but it isn’t in the cards for me.

I’m straight, attracted to the men’s. And I had a lesbian dream about a friend of a friend. I told her when we were tipsy at a party and she yelled, “I’m flattered!” and then kissed me right on the lips! But I’m still straight.

mostly

Nope, never happened. Don’t think it ever will either.

I’m a man who absolutely loves and adores women. I also don’t remember any dreams. Certainly not any wet dreams. I only get sex in real life or fantasy life. No where in between.

I can recall two specific events when I have had odd dreams for a straight guy.

I once had a dream that I had a sex change operation, and it was cool having a vagina for a few minutes, but when I wanted them to change me back, they told me my cock was long gone and there was no going back and I got very pissed off.

One other time, a generic dream generated girl I was “kissing/doing stuff with” turned in to one of my male friends thus causing me to freak out.

Thats as close as it gets.

Never say never, Hypo!

Well, I’m a bisexual woman, but a big part of my realizing that I am bisexual was dreams.

It seemed that whenever I had a sex dream about a female, I really liked it, and not just because there was sex involved. I liked it because I wanted it to happen in real life. Those dreams awakened different sorts of desires in me and I started “letting” myself have those desires when I was awake, with actual females and, lo and behold, it was way more awesome than dreams.

I’m a male, attracted only to females. As far as I know, my wet dreams have only been about females.

Though as most of us know, we don’t remember the vast majority of our dreams. Just sayin’...

I can’t recall ever having a sexual dream about a girl. The first wet dream I ever had was when I was 13 and it involved a boy I knew and had a crush on. In fact that was one of the earliest indicators that I was gay…

Straight Female. :)
No… I don’t. Haha.

I consider myself straight in that I’ve only ever had intimate contact with males. But I often find females attractive, and I sometimes have sexy dreams about women. I don’t think about what that means to the label I’ve placed on myself, because there’s no real need for it in the first place.

My label:Heteroflexible and identify as straight. I male and have had dreams involving other men although infrequent.