[NSFW] Question regarding reaching high points.

For some women, a fast orgasm leads to others—some of which may come more quickly and others of which may take a longer time. Also, I have found that women seem to be a bit less prone to the “I’m done, I’m going to sleep” syndrome. They are willing to keep on going until their partner has finished.

Having a woman orgasm quickly is exciting to me, makes the sex much better.

I never begin the penetrative part of sex without giving her an orgasm first via some other method.

I have noticed a much higher rate of orgasm in my partners if I do that first.

Yes, I think anyone can come too early. I think society places more pressure on the man to not do so, which is ridiculous but points to the oh-so-tired thinking that man is his penis.

After orgasm a man loses his erection for some time. The amount of time between erections varies with age, health, liquor… etc. Regardless, there is a physical end point. There is no physical reason why a woman can’t have orgasm after orgasm. There is no need for her to stop. A female orgasm is not an end, so how could a female orgasm be considered pre-mature?

@GladysMensch “how could a female orgasm be considered pre-mature?”
I don’t know, that is why I asked :-)

On the answers that talk about giving/getting orgasms before penetration: I know a girl for whom that doesn’t work…, that girl can’t be touched at all after orgasm, let alone penetration.
I guess she misses something quite nice…?!

I dated a girl for a very long time who was very much like a man. She would cum very quickly, and then pass out asleep immediately afterward. I didn’t particularly mind, but it bugged her a bit.

Women are unlikely to come too soon. If they do, it does not usually spoil their partner’s time at all.

@rebbel You asked if a woman can have a premature orgasm. I asked if a female orgasm can be considered premature. Yours was related to practice, mine was related to theory.

I suppose if they get extremely sensitive after orgasm or fall asleep like fiddle’s girl it could be problem. But think of all the bragging you could do?

Speaking only for myself here, it’s not always the case that when a man orgasms he loses his erection….. I myself do not deflate to any degree between orgasms, maintaining a healthy erection no matter how many times I ejaculate during the course of having sex…. That’s a misconception as far as I’m concerned….. :-/

@Scooby And how much exactly do you pay for them blue ones? ~
I didn’t realise that, and I’m jealous :-)

@Imadethisupwithnoforethought Yes, that’s the way to do it :D Good job!

My wife is like @Fiddle’s ex.

If we’re not careful, she finishes too soon, then passes out. She’s a one-and-done. They’re usually these huge, dramatic things – but it’s always one and zzzzzzzzzzz

If a man gets done quickly, it’s over b/c what can you do with a flaccid dick? Some can get it up quickly thereafter, but it seems like the generalization is that most can’t.

If a woman gets done quickly, it’s ok because all you gotta do is apply a little lube and it’s as good as it was a few minutes ago, LOL and if the woman cums quickly, it seems they are still willing to go at it to get the guy off anyway.

So I wouldn’t say it’s as much of a spoiler.

I can have many…so if one wasn’t great…Thank you dear, I’ll have another!

@rebbel – I guess it’s just down to a high libido, it’s all natural…. I only pay for the Taxi home :-/

@mrrich724 Yeh, I love when that happens. I’m willing to go for as long as it takes. Sometimes it’s that he thinks I’m frustrated because he is not done yet and he says girls in the past were. I’m like ‘keep going baby!’

@thesparrow DAMN ;) Lucky guy

@mrrich724 Not really. I’m lucky that I get that much pleasure before he’s finished.