@gailcalled*This question is rhetorical, I have to assume.* No, it isn’t. Thinking back, some of the stuff and the pranks we pulled in high school people of today could not stomach because they totally take it out of context. Like watching a boxing or mixed martial arts match and trying to equal that to a street brawl. We did not hold any one captive, prevent their escape, or broke the skin or left scars. If that was are intent, we all had belts in our pants, if was all about torture and causing misery we would have used our belts. The freshman who was the object of the hazing, didn’t get hazed long-term. It wasn’t a systemic daily horror they had to endure. It may have happened no more than three time the whole year, five tops. Usually once a freshman got to the second semester and his noob status wore stale, he was no longer bothered, or pranked on unless they were his friends. It was a ”welcome to high school” thing like if you were in the Navy your 1st time over the equator you had to dress in drag. You didn’t have to keep doing it every other time you passed over, but it was like your initiation to the brotherhood.
The stuff I read about and see on the news that young man and women are kicked out of high school for, is taking an inflatable dingy and trying to make a container freight ship out of it. Some of the stuff students did as pranks in my school would make many cringe, I guess. Still, we went to class without guards roaming the campus or having to walk through metal detectors.
@marinelife It was yesterday’s assault too. By a law textbook, maybe it was. Any student insisting it was would surely bring one a year’s worth of grief behind some hazing that fist 5 weeks; and not every day at that.
@JLeslie @Hypocrisy_Central Do you think most men look back at the hazing they participated in, that they committed, do they just blow it off as a right of passage, or actually have some remorse about it? It was not like we (the upperclassmen) roamed the halls daily hunting underclassmen. The amount of actual hazing you could count on one hand. However, there was this one freshmen, (who became our good friend we would have gone to war with because he took it), that he hit with a shave cream bomb and he had to call his dad for another shirt. He knew the drill, he was a freshman, and as a freshman he would be the target time to time of some pranks or a rat tail ambush coming from the shower. He took it, he didn’t give any of us up, we was sure he would crack under his dad’s pressure, but he held fast. Because of that, he earned our unflappable respect. He was under our protection, so to speak, from any other hazing, less we gave him a small friendly taste time to time.
I guess when you are in high school it is kind of tribal, the jocks stick with jocks, the stoners stick with stoners, etc. Everyone, whether they were athletically inclined or not went out for the freshman football team, because that is what you did. No one, has ever went out to target a freshman with the ideal or intent to punish, harm, or torture any of them. We didn’t subject them to any wooden paddles, make them eat disgusting things, wear a diaper to school, or anything like that. We would have seen such stuff as over the line. We never stuffed a freshman’s in a toilet either. Aside of that one time, I don’t remember saying to the group, ”We went too far with that one”. We didn’t trash their lockers, destroy their property or any such thing as that.
Where do we go next, giving jail time for tee peeing a house, because you want to call it malicious vandalism?
@fizzbanger Hazing can be funny. Like in the movie Waiting. Some people get offended too easily. No truer words said. I guess we can have all students walk the halls with their hands in their pocket, that will keep them out of trouble. Why have some hazing when having young people sexing it up in the band equipment room or the janitor’s closet is much better.
@YARNLADY Hazing is done to terrorize or humiliate the victim. There is no other reason, and it is despicable. Wrong. Sometimes it might be used to get a laugh at the hazie’s expense, but never to terrorize. That is the mark of a bully targeting someone for something personal.