(NSFW) Men: What turns you on?
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September 21st, 2011
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For me it’s whenever during or before the women takes control. I think it’s a major turn on to see a girl take charge of the situation. Also consent…
Long hair that looks flowing and almost disheveled, kind of like a hippie woman lol. I was never much into the women with perfectly straight hair and a lot of makeup.
I also get turned on by a woman that I feel is smarter than me lol. A woman that will challenge my beliefs or teach me something throughout the relationship.
For example, I was talking to a woman at a party about her research on moss. Once she got into it, she stopped and said she didn’t want to bore anyone, so I told her I’m interested and would love for her to continue in detail. Listening to her describe the genetic makeup of moss was a huge turn on.
Nicole does it for me, lately. Plus what @Blackberry said. But with Nicole talking about moss, floss or anything else for that matter.
I’m not a guy, but I’ll just sit here in the corner and listen to the interesting answers. Carry on.
Engaging eye contact.
Her body, pretty much all of it, at least if it is within the fairly tolerant bounds of my model of what an attractive woman is supposed to look like.
Her movements.
Her interest in and desire for me, and her response to me: If I touch or kiss her, her response that shows interest or enthusiasm is magic and more or less essential.
(No interest in her shoes or accessories.)
A woman’s “feminine warmth”. Not all women have it. And this quality doesn’t necessarily correlate with beauty. For example, a woman can be drop-dead gorgeous, but she can also have “ice water in her veins”——that is, she lacks sensuousness, kindness, sweetness——a “feminine kind of warmth” that makes her attractive, likable, and sexy. Personally, I find that a big turn-on.
Physically, having a nice face, figure, and a great pair of legs is appealing too.
A wink and a hitherto nod.
Kindness/Honesty/Gentleness
A sincere desire to fulfill all my sexual fantasies.
The ability to be submissive or dominant depending on our respective moods.
A woman that has a good ‘relationship’ with her body – isn’t self-conscious, repressed, etc.
Titties in my face.
The sound of her voice: that little hiccup in her laugh that tells me she is feeling it. God. That’s all it takes.
And there are 100 other things—little things—that, on their own, would get me hard instantly.
You know what, though? It really comes down to how we connect mentally and spirituality. Once we have that connection, she could read the phone book in a monotone and I’d be stiff and trembling for action like a coon dog in a Louisiana swamp!
Would you like some popcorn, @WillWorkForChocolate? It has extra butter…
Don’t mind me either, guys. I’m just interested in the conversation. Please continue :)
A little bending over, reverse cowgirl, licking, whispering, face sitting, 69, a good smile, a nice laugh, cute jokes, nice sense of humor, appreciates art, appreciates music, isn’t a cheap ass, has common sense, shows patience, knows how to cook from time to time, can read a book, likes independent film is non skanky, slut, whore.
I’ve always been fond of the girls who are super “proper” and “good girls” in the general public…. but total freaks in bed.
@Raven_Rising Popcorn would be great! But only if it’s drowning in butter; I’m a cholesterol kinda girl.
When a woman gently moans and sighs to express here pleasure during lovemaking. Super turn-on!
When a woman kisses my neck, collarbone or inner thigh, nibbling my ear, eye contact during fellatio (drives me crazy), fellatio in general, biting and scratching during sex, blond hair, blue eyes, slenderness among many other things
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