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NSFW Women: Have you ever actually seen a male stripper?

Asked by Imadethisupwithnoforethought (14682points) September 25th, 2011

In discussion this evening, a female of about my age indicated to me that she had never actually seen a male stripper.

I cannot recall that I have either.

Do male strippers really exist? Are they common outside of big cities? Have you seen one live?

If you have, what was your impression of the performance?

If you are a man reading this and have been a male stripper, how was the work/pay? What qualifications do you need to get started?

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creative1's avatar

Oh yes they do or at least they did in the 90’s when I saw them lol!!! There was this club that they would actually strip all the way nude and I thought the strangest thing was that they wouldn’t at least put the smallest guys on first so you wouldn’t be seeing a big guy then a small guy and I am talking about the size of his peepeck…. Nothing worse than putting this little peepeck on after a big one

chyna's avatar

@creative1 I’ve never heard it called a peepeck! lol

creative1's avatar

@chyna my friend and I have different names for everything lol

KateTheGreat's avatar

I dated one.

Coloma's avatar

I had 3 male friends strip at my bachelorette party years ago…they did a GREAT job! haha

everephebe's avatar

A friend of mine came out of the closet so a couple of girls and I took him to an all male all nude place. It was interesting/creepy weird.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

@KateTheGreat did you have the first date before or after you had seen him perform?

KateTheGreat's avatar

@Imadethisupwithnoforethought He asked me on a date first. I pretty much dated him just to say “Hey, I dated a male stripper.” Gosh, it was hilarious.

Pandora's avatar

I went to a bachlorette party once that had one. He was a guy who worked with my husband. It was quite awkward. I did not know they were planning this and thought it would be funny to try to get him to dance on my lap since I was the only one to turn bright red.. He was just down to his g-string. He started to come forward but I said I would walk home if he came any nearer so he went towards the bride to be.
I was a bit upset about it because I told them if there was going to be any strippers that I wished not to come.
I thought the performance his performance was fine but I found myself wishing he could find a better way to make money. I really didn’t care for everyone elses behavior towards him. They all knew him as well and I could tell he didn’t feel comfortable being treated that way by people he knows. It was a small town.

tranquilsea's avatar

Back when male strippers first became fairly popular my mother took me to one. I was 18 and not quite old enough to be in a bar. I found my self watching all the women more than the guy on stage. It was quite an interesting situation.

Bellatrix's avatar

I went to a hens night and there was a male stripper. It was anything but sexy. I agree with @tranquilsea the reactions of the women there were far more interesting than the male stripper. He came across as very egotistical in his performance and frankly, without justification for the very large ego.

Buttonstc's avatar

I’ve seen male strippers and it was a really good fun performance. It was at a gay Leather bar so there were very few other women besides me.

chewhorse's avatar

All females go bananas at male strip clubs, acting silly like a giddy school kid and tossing about dollars like they grew on trees.. You know, the same way males act at female strip clubs. Which is worse? Always and forever.. Pedophiles..!!

Bellatrix's avatar

I don’t understand your final remark @chewhorse? “Always and forever…Pedophiles..!!” What does this mean?

Ayesha's avatar

Not yet.

christine215's avatar

Ugh, in the 90’s when I was working at a nightclub, every Tuesday they had a male revue. I never made any money off of serving those bitches drinks! (every single dollar was shoved down a dude’s g-string) And the male dancers would walk around the service area like primadonnas.

Also, if I may comment: the male revue’s I’ve seen, the men didn’t get all the way naked, they left a small piece of cloth on to cover up their junk.

The women at these revues were barbarians. They’d grab at the dude’s packages and shove money every which way, and pull them in for open mouthed kisses and generally act disgusting.
My husband and I have been to a few female strip clubs together and I have NEVER seen anything like that going on in one of those places. From my understanding, you act out of line in a strip-club and you’ll find yourself battered, bruised and out on the street before you know what happened to you.

boxer3's avatar

@Bellatrix , for some reason your comment just made me laugh outloud to myself. hahha.

I think @chewhorse just means both males and females at strip clubs are whatever so noones worse. but pedo’s. well they’re just creeps.

Met a male stripper fully clothed. never seen one perform

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