Our rules change as needed. Our son first posted “Do not hit the dogs with your blanket” in the form of a drawn picture at age 2. We have followed his direction ;0)
He made a picture he could see from “his” chair, from bed, and in the kitchen.
Next he put scribbles on paper that “read” Do not throw or you go to time out!
We do have picture charts with the House Food Rule: You must eat healthy foods first!
He knows that rule so we don’t have it anywhere else in the home. It’s fully assimilated at this point ;) If he’s given a meal with more than one fruit or veggie selection he’ll ask “Which am I supposed to eat first?”. Usually I’ll say “you pick” but some days that’s too broad of a thought for him, so I’ll pick for him.
Before leaving the home he’s given fair warning of our schedule. It’s up to him to figure out what he wants to bring. He knows I’ll bring his lunch box with snacks, a bag with activities-etc. If we get in the car and have left the driveway we are not going back. It’s a rule!
Besides those listed above, our current house rules are:
*Please speak to the person you want to talk to in the room they are in.
*Ask nicely. Parents decide.
*Exercise first. No movies or TV without moving your body.
Again, these could change tomorrow, if something happens and we have a new issue to work on, I’ll put the other rules on the back burner and fully address the most urgent skill During this time of year, S.A.D. hits hard and fast…we are blessed with sun this week :)
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My son hears great. He hears a train in the distance, birds outside, the tv, his brothers fighting, and my voice. Unfortunately its as if he hears them all at the same volume. Most people know what to filter out and what to pay attention to.. but he is still learning. It is the same with tastes, smells… any sense. He might love the taste of a food, but if it isn’t the right texture he won’t eat it.
My son is the same @digitalimpression.
For food issues:
We juice at home and buy juices. We expect that each meal will begin with a fruit or veg. Since he cannot do textures well, we do not expect him to “eat” what we eat yet. We do ask him to try. He’s a good boy and wants to please, so most of the time he will.
I find food-chaining to be the wisest way to get him to attempt new foods. If he picks something out at the grocery store, the rule is he must try it. That’s helped him try a few things that we never would’ve thought of giving him.