In my Senior year of High School I went through the pre-admission testing (medical and written tests) for both the Army and Navy, got a day off from school when they took a group of us to NY. I figured it would be a good way to get my college education paid for both during and after my time in either. I really could not afford college otherwise.
All I was waiting for was my 18th birthday and graduation.
But then I was notified that my scores on the NY State Regents exam qualified me for a scholarship. So I figured if they wanted to pay me for going to college that was certainly fine by me.
But I often wonder about the road not taken. I’ve met numerous people who’ve put in their 18 or 20 years in the military and then retired. They were still young enough to be able to have a second career available to them. Worked out really well for them.
After talking to various military people I also realized in hindsight that there is a very significant difference in ones experience as an enlisted member versus (after college) an officer. I’d far rather be the one in charge as an officer than to be the lowest on the totem pole. Shit runs downhill, after all.
If you’re not the lead sled dog, the view never changes (ie: the ass end of the dog ahead of you :)
For me personally I’m very glad I didn’t join at the bottom rung of the ladder.
On the other hand, I also saw numerous kids who dropped out/flunked out of college because they just didn’t have the maturity to handle the self discipline and self motivation required to be successful in an atmosphere with so little supervision.
Some of them would have been far better off to have spent a few years in the discipline of the military to grow up a little.
A few years of extra growing up time post high school has been very beneficial for many people who were then much better equipped to succeed at college.
Everybody is different with different needs. Hopefully you can find a way (or a friend/counselor) to be ruthlessly honest with yourself and figure out which situation you would need in order to blossom.
The other thing to keep in mind is the risk of permanent disability or death that comes with military service at this time in history.
It’s a major decision point in your life. Other people can give you feedback but it’s ultimately your own life and you’re the one who will live or die by the consequences of this decision. Others can give opinions but you’re the ONLY ONE who gets to vote.