How do I ask her to the movies?
My girlfriend has a twin. Her twin is around her all of the time, and every time I want to go somewhere, her sister asks to tag along. Of course, for the sake of my girlfriend not getting mad, I say that it is fine. I really want to ask her to the movies, but I want it to be romantic. I want to kiss her. That will be challenging, having her sister sitting next to her or me. It would make it awkward. How do I ask her?
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So, you say to your girlfriend “Hey, I thought that you and I could go to the movies together. On a date. Just the two of us, so I can romance you.” Easy.
Say, “You know I love your sister, but how about just the two of us going to the movies?”
I’ve dated a twin and I’ve also lived with (one) so I can tell you, the other is around more often than not. You’d be better off talking to the sister and telling her you want to set up a romantic date for your gf so she can know to stay out of that venture.
If her sister is always going along on your dates, maybe she and her sister are into threesomes and they’re trying to give you a clue. Seems kind’a obvious to me that’s what’s going on…
You twotimer, you. I thought you and your gf were making wedding plans.It’s one thing to remain a virgin before the marriage, but not kissless.
Sounds like a real problem to me. I never thought about that before. The twin might be kind of jealous about her sister. They are used to doing everything together. I think you need to handle this delicately, and like others suggested above, mention, perhaps to the twin, that you are seeing her sister in a romantic way and would like to spend time alone with her. Then you might actually ask for her advice. How can you woo her sister? What would she like? How should you behave? Etc. etc.
If you get her twin on your side, you’re golden, I think. Maybe you could talk to the twin on facebook or text her or email or whatever you kids do these days. Just be careful about the twin’s feelings. She could easily feel bad about not being included in her sister’s life.
I’d go for honesty – just tell her how you feel. It could be a great defining moment in your relationship. If she gets upset and can’t handle it, that’s a good sign that things could easily crumble later on and you can break up knowing that marriage isn’t an option (which is why we date right?).
If she is understanding and willing to compromise her sister for you once in a while, I think that’s pretty healthy behavior and you’ve essentially taken your relationship up a notch.
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