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I really don't want a wedding but my fiance wants one , what should I do ?

Asked by suzanna28 (684points) October 14th, 2011

Ok well my family is dysfunctional. I already have enough problems contacting them and as for getting them to come to my wedding I don’t even know if they will come as they don’t communicate.

Secondly I don’t have alot of friends.

Thirdly if I have a wedding i just want it to be ordinary. I don’t think it should be a big party with wild drinking and everyone going wild, which by the way many people find boring.

Fourthly , my fiancĂ©‘s family speak a different language from my family and friends so I am worried about things being awkward.

Fifthly the wedding is going to be held in his home country,again language issues when it comes to planning it.

I keep telling him I don’t want one but he insists we should, that it is nice to share your marriage with others.

However I am afraid it will be boring and lame, however he doesn’t care.

I don’t think he realizes all the details that need to go into a wedding to make it good.

I think he just want to show up have the ceremony and some food and have it done and over with.

However , I think when you have a destination wedding you have to make it attractive so people will want to come or that it would be worth it for them to come.

What do you think.? What should I do? The venue is already booked by him.

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