@Gabriel
Are the statements you’ve made regarding the characteristics of sociopaths and Aspies coming from a professional viewpoint? If so, in which discipline were you trained, ie: mental health, social worker, teacher, etc.?
Have you routinely encountered a lot of people tagging an Aspie as a sociopath ? Have you encountered this in many case studies?
I appreciate your input very much, but find myself quite frankly puzzled by one significant aspect of what you said.
I’m curious about the basis of your positing that it’s VERY easy to confuse the affect and actions of an Aspie for those of a sociopath. That would seem to suggest that it’s quite common and happens routinely. Huh?
To do that , one would have to know next to nothing about sociopathy and LITERALLY NOTHING about those with Aspbergers (not even a cursory viewing of Rainman).
The skillset of a sociopath goes hand hand with that of a pathological liar. I can see those two being conflated quite easily Obviously not every liar is a sociopath. But sociopaths are deceivers by nature. Its a good (for them) substitute for the conscience they dont have The only difference is a matter of degree.
One of the standout characteristics of those on the Autism spectrum is their typical frankness and utter lack of guile (many times to their OWN detriment) The MO of the sociopath is to the detriment of all those around them, but certainly not to themselves.
I doubt that there’s an Aspie to be found with the cunning to be able to pull off being a pathological liar. It’s just not part of their natural skillset and I don’t think they could manage it even if they WANTED TO.
Cunning and deception for a sociopath is as natural as breathing. They don’t even think about it. It’s their home turf.
So I’m honestly trying to figure out where the idea came from that it’s so very easy to conflate Aspies with sociopaths. As if it’s done all the time.
I agree totally that one should not be overly hasty to slap labels on people. Definitely.
But I’m honestly trying to figure out who could possibly confuse an Aspie with a sociopath?
Granted, Aspie behavior can be rather puzzling to people upon meeting one (especially the first time.) And their candor and sometimes brusque manner is unsettling to those who are comfy with wearing a PC social mask. But their outspokenness and cluelessnesd has a unique disarming charm to it precisely because of it’s utter honesty. There is not a fake bone in their body.
A sociopath can only try to impersonate honestly Actually being honest is totally foreign to him and he really doesn’t have any desire for it to begin with.
Hopefully you can clarify that point for me. I appreciate the intent of your comments, but the Aspie part of it kind of came out of left field for me.
I know that we have some Aspies and parents of those on various parts of the Autism spectrum as part of the Flutherverse here who have shared a lot with us regarding their challenges.
So if there are any reading this Q, I would really appreciate some comments from your experience. Have you or your child ever been mistaken for a Sociopath? If it happens much more than I’m aware of I’d really want to know that. Feel free to chime in with your viewpoint and views. Thanks and lurve to all.