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How come you can't always make any sense of some things and only have to go through them?
This can be for any situation… for when a close friend/family member dies unexpected; when you get dumped for no reason; when you hear you [or someone close] got a terminal disease; when you feel like being on top of the world… etc
How come we can’t explain some of them but we still have to go through them?
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