What have you never had in your relationship that you desperatley need?
I know couples that are still together, but something has always been missing from one or the other person in the relationship. I am not talking about personal relations, I mean just outward affection for each other in public and private. Question: so, what’s missing from your relationship that you desire more than anything else, but are not receiving?
Observing members:
0
Composing members:
0
17 Answers
Physical affection and enthusiastic expressions of love.
I need to be more expressive, sweet and thoughtful, to match or just even come slightly close to that of my SO’s level of amorous expression. I almost never pay any compliment she deserves. I desperately need to stop being an ungrateful douche.
mazingerz88….talk is cheap. Now that you realize this fault, go and do something about it. Love on a one way street can have deadly end results.
PDA. Nothing excessive. Just an arm around my waist or brushing my thigh with his hand, or.. any casual touching at all when we aren’t completely alone.
To me it is more about attention and caring as well as reassurance to me, I think I am a bit insecure in relationship.
A daily back rub.
I’m serious
I’m happy with everything else where our relationship is concerned. =)
There is nothing missing that I desperately need. I would like for him to be more aggressive as a person, in general, but that’s not an issue really.
More time! He’s a young professional working a 9–5. I work retail which means most of my hours are weekends and nights. Plus, I don’t have a car and we live an hour apart. It’s a pain in the ass.
Just general, overall respect.
However, I realized that I haven’t been expecting it, so of course, I haven’t been receiving enough of it.
More confidence and patience in dealing with addiction.
not currently in one, but
respect & emotional support
Complete, overwhelming adoration that is not saying “use me.” I’ve never had a woman who knows how to play with me and who desires me in the same way I desire her. This is unlikely to ever change since I am married to my lovely wife for better or for worse. My wife is pretty reserved. I don’t think she does rock star adoration.
Not currently in one but what I have found missing is appreciation, respect, understanding, acceptance, impulsiveness and romance…
perhaps I am asking for too much?
Answer this question 
Composing members:
0
