Full disclosure: Not a theist – but, do enjoy learning about theology, religious history, etc, especially with a focus on Christianity. Also, will only be answering for Christianity, because I honestly have no freaking clue about other religions (though, there is obviously some crossover between Christianity and the other Abrahamic religions of Judaism and Islam.)
I think what you’re asking about is called Divine Providence in Christianity; that is, the activity of God in life and in the universe. I would sum up that page for you, except I really don’t think I can do it better than that page right now (incomplete though it is), so I’m really just going to say to go read that page, and ask/pm me if you have any questions, need any terms defined, need to know who any people are, etc. One part I’m going to expand upon is that Calvinism becomes very influential in America and the evolution of Christian theology in America, especially within more evangelical branches, and not just upon this issue. There has been a rise in the past few decades of the view of a more directly involved God (most especially within evangelical branches, but also within Protestantism at large within America; that God is now not just directly guiding bigger things (wars, famines, etc) or even bigger but still more personal things (who you wed, if you have a child, if you die, etc) but much “smaller” personal things (if your high school football team wins, if you can successfully skip a rock over the pond, etc).
Another part is that Catholicism deals with this to a certain extent through intercession. Basically, the role of saints is to play mediator between you and God, so you take whatever daily stuff you have to the saints, and they might pass it on to God. So, by this, God is both very directly and entirely indirectly involved in human and Earthly affairs.
@Adirondackwannabe I’m going to throw out the theory God would have to allow people free will to make their own decisions or there would be no way for the good to distinguish themselves from the bad. Ah, but there is, at least according to some theologians, most notability John Calvin. According to Calvin, we can spot those who, by God’s grace, will be saved and go to Heaven by those who “are righteous” and act righteously. Calvin does lay out some guidelines for how to spot those are righteous, like hard work, moral living, and thriftiness, but his guidelines do leave some room for interpretation (as does almost everything written in the history of ever). Eventually, in the 19th century, we see a rise within American evangelicalism/Protestantism of a conflation of material gains with righteousness, in something of a “God blesses on Earth (via money) those who He will also bless in Heaven” kind of view, which does help to reconcile Christian theology with the (then) newly capitalistic world.