Yes, that is why I became a vegetarian. When I was in my early twenties, after struggling with this situation for many years, I realized that I could not reconcile my feelings of compassion towards animals (living beings) with my desire to eat tasty food. I pretty much became a vegetarian, cold turkey, no pun intended.
Back then it was much harder, because there were not a lot of decent vegetarian options, most people were not vegetarians, and people looked at me like I was crazy or pitiful, or even that I might have an eating disorder (they thought that because I refused to eat certain animal foods, that I must be anorexic, which is/was far from the truth).
Also, during that time, although I had a rudimentary knowledge of cooking, I was not a cook in any sense of the word. I knew that I was going to have to do a lot of research to find out what were the best things for me to eat, to maintain a healthy diet (and not succumb to the “Cheetos Diet” which is technically vegetarian, but very unhealthy for anyone).
Then I decided that I needed to learn how to cook, because going out to eat, at that time, was almost impossible to find a decent vegetarian meal (this was in the early 80’s) and I knew that my relatives were not going to accomodate me, mostly because it simply didn’t occur to them, and secondly because they were totally unfamiliar with how to achieve a wholesome vegetarian meal, and because they knew that almost no one else in my family was going to “put up with this foolishness.”
Over the years, I have become a pretty good cook. I’ve scoured magazines, like Vegetarian Times, and clipped vegetarian recipes from Cooking Light, Sunset and Better Homes & Gardens and Martha Stewart Living. I’ve created my own recipe archive in a notebook and online.
I’ve learned to create meals from vegetarian items, that normal people will eat. Therefore, I’ve become rather popular at my family and work potlucks. Everyone assumes that I will bring something yummy. I love to cook and I love to eat, yummy springs from that.
My best friend, who is about 10 years younger than me easily embraced and switched to a vegetarian lifestyle very quickly. Her boyfriend, who is from my generation was a dyed in the wool meat and potatoes kind of guy for the first 35 years of his life and the first 2 years of dating my best friend. He kind of pooh poohed our vegetarian lifestyle/diet as kind of a nuisance. But one day, he and my best friend were driving on the freeway and there was an accident. A car had collided with a truck that was carrying ducks to the Asian restaurants in Los Angeles. There were cages of ducks strewn all over the road, and many of the ducks, who’s cages had been broken apart had been hit by other cars and killed. They were stopped and tried to help. There was nothing they could do. It was at that moment, that my friend’s boyfriend had an emotional ephiphany and he decided right there on the spot to become a vegetarian. That was ten years ago and he’s never looked back. It was a little harder for him, because he is a pretty picky eater, and being a male, he is regularly given grief from his male friends and relatives.
I don’t expect that in my lifetime, that most people will choose to adopt a vegetarian diet. I am not the type of person to preach my beliefs to anyone. I only give measured answers when questioned. I know that I am going to continue to live in a world where most people eat animals and consider vegetarians to be, if not a little bit weird, to be fully “out there.”
I also don’t try to be one of those people who preach to other people what is right. I only know what is right for me, and I try to do what is best and compassionate, and that sometimes means tolerating what everybody else is used to.
I love to cook and feed people and care for people, and care for animals and help to alleviate their suffering. I hope that with my knowledge of cooking and good food, I can convince some people that eating vegetarian food is not only compassionate, it is healthy and tasty too.