Meh… it’s a personal pet peev of mine. I know it’s bothersome when I bring it up. What can i say? I can’t stand small talk… But you will note, that like you @blueiiznh, I did note the difference between strangers and “those closest to me”.
When someone asks it… a stranger… it’s either a script from management, or because they really want to talk about how it goes with themselves, or it’s just plain unimaginative uninspiring small talk.
OK so the last person that asked… I answered that my dog just died, my wife left me, my house was foreclosed, and I recently discovered that my Grandmother was a card carrying Nazi.
That’s OK… the reaction was the same if I just said “Great”. For it produced no further conversation beyond that point. There was no real interest. There were no further questions or comments… just like this thread. No discussion was sparked.
Notice in this thread… not one conversation has sparked aside from the one we’re having currently. If there was genuine interest, there would be replies something to the affect of:
Hey congrats to you @Pele. Your hard work has paid off. Don’t spend all that money in one place. What kind of artwork do you do?
That’s funny @Mat74UK… I’ve never heard the phrase “Child Minders” before. I call them baby sitters. I might have to use your label from now on. I wonder what your baby had to make him sick?
So what product works best for whitening the teeth @Coloma? You’ve inspired me to get caught up on my stuff too. What were you doing… just cleaning or tuck pointing the chimney?
So you day was “crap” huh @MilkyWay? I’d ask, but you obviously don’t want to talk about it any further.
Wow @martianspringtime… that Lips looks fun. We don’t have anything like that where I come from. Are you a regular?
p.s. kudos to you for commenting on and acknowledging the OP’s details
@Symbeline That’s a great way to gage the previous day… No bad memories must mean it went pretty well… or as you say… “fine”. You type pretty good for being drunk!
What a bum @Neizvestnaya… join the club. It’s what I aspire towards every day of my life. Did you bum out alone… or with that special bum buddy?