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Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

NSFW if you want- Have you ever been hit on by a medical professional during a visit?

Asked by Imadethisupwithnoforethought (14682points) November 23rd, 2011

I am curious if anyone else has experienced this.

If you have, please describe the visit, and any recollections of the emotions you experienced.

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gravity's avatar

I once had a gynocologist tell me when I returned to him years later that he remembered everything about me. Creeped me out to say the least… yikes

Jude's avatar

Mine would be pretty frightening. He looks like Ron Jeremy.

Paradox25's avatar

I’m not sure this would qualify as ‘hitting’ on me but around 10 years ago when I was going to a certain dentist I used to enjoy a few of his young (but a little older than me) female assistants telling me how cute I was everytime I had an appointment there. I was temporarily living in another area at the time so I don’t go there anymore. I think that they enjoyed seeing me blush. I’m a guy and they were cute so I didn’t complain.

Bellatrix's avatar

I was 16 and the optometrist tried to hypnotise me. I was doing some part-time work for him and he kept asking to test my eyes.

He told me to close my eyes and put my head back and then proceeded to stroke my eyelids.

Then he started to ask me to raise my left arm. Then raise my right arm etc.

He didn’t touch me in any untoward way but when I started laughing (on the third time he tried this), he told me he didn’t need me to come and do part-time reception work for him any more :-(

Not sure how far he would have gone if I hadn’t laughed but it was seriously creepy. Especially as he was well, well into his 70s.

ratboy's avatar

A doctor stuck her finger up my ass. Was she hitting on me?

cazzie's avatar

My osteopath showed up at my door and asked me out for dinner. It was awkward. He was hot and sexy, but married. Weird thing, he had to drive 3 hours to get to my house. We had dinner and talked and became friends. He had some issues I wasn’t going to get involved in. I later learned that he left his wife, but he moved further away and we lost touch. He was a seriously gifted healer, but it took an emotional toll on him. I really hope he managed to find some balance in his life. When I thought back at my professional visits to him, I think he probably dragged out the therapeutic-back-rub side of things.

Pied_Pfeffer's avatar

A dentist asked me out on a date. In two other cases, it wasn’t considered hitting upon, but inappropriate. Both doctors made a comment about my body parts that they probably assumed were flattering, but it left me feeling violated to a certain degree.

augustlan's avatar

My doctor is cute, but no.

plethora's avatar

My doctor is cute too and I wouldnt mind at all if she did.

ucme's avatar

I turned on Doctor Who recently, he does nothing for me though, not now.
I switched channels almost immediately & watched The Bold & The Bewildered instead, what a hoot.

Bart19's avatar

When I had an infection, I went to the Emergency Unit. The guy there was a real, total creep. Apparently they didn’t have any ear thermometers so he just a used the one that needed to go in my butt because, apparently that was the most accurate. Fair enough but very uncomfortable and when he shoved it in he just had to add “Oh you haven’t had anything put in there before?” with such a weird smile (Yay to the doc for implying I was gay or liked kinky stuf!).

marinelife's avatar

I went in for surgery on my knee. I was in my 20s. The anesthesiologist kept me awake for the whole procedure, but sedated. he proceeded to feel me up (playing with my breasts under the sheet) during the entire operation.

I might have thought that I imagined it, but he came to visit me afterward. One of my girlfriends had brought me a Playgirl magazine as a joke. He picked it up from my bedside table, opened it to the centerfold, and said “Think of me when you look at this.”

shego's avatar

I had a super hot night shift nurse guy who would come into my room to check my stats, and then after he was done making his rounds, if I was still awake, he would come in and talk to me, and play games like uno. He could have been a male model. But he would flirt with me and even told me that if I wasn’t engaged, he would love to get to know me better, in more than one way. what a way to bring up the blood pressure His flirty behavior really made my stay a little bit easier.

boxer3's avatar

I had a doctor tell me he loved the people of my culture, and gave me a full version of “my people’s” history….. the only reason he knew any sort of origin of my ancestors was my last name. That was odd.

When I was 20 my dentist essentially asked me out to a bar with him and his assistant….. I just said, uhhhh, I’m 20.

pretty boring stories but hey.

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