So, I guess it depends on exactly what you mean by “libido”. (And no, I don’t just mean “sex drive”). Because if you mean, raising a baseline level of consistent horniness, then no. I don’t want to be horny when I’m just driving to work in the morning, or going grocery shopping, or doing paperwork, or any of the other routine and somewhat mundane tasks of everyday life. It’s actually hugely distracting when crotch is all “feed me” all the time. Also, I don’t currently have a regular partner, so my current sex drive is pretty much all I can handle until that changes.
But if you mean, how quickly and intensely aroused I get before having an orgasm, then maybe. Not for regular use, but to try and experiment? Sure, I enjoy all kinds of experimentation, from new restaurants to new movies to new sexual adventures. And Viagra would work sorta the same way as it does for men; swollen clit and labia, and that would bring on arousal, and I’d be horny. But it just wouldn’t be as good, as satisfying (and much more frustrating) than if I went the more chemical-free route. And maybe that’ll change some day, but for now, I’m largely good.
As to women having this discussion, so, here’s the thing: When you say “women aren’t having this discussion/demand”, what you really mean is ”I don’t hear women having this discussion/demand”. There’s a pretty big difference. And men in our society are allowed to say these things, to have that demand and discussion, without a whole lot of consequence. Not none, but it’s relatively low. Women, on the other hand, are taught from a very young age that you do not talk about these things, and when they try to break out of that mold, they’re punished much more severely. And so then, women don’t have these discussions if they don’t feel safe. They take them underground. They talk about it in hushed voices with their sisters and female friends and female doctors and mothers and aunts and grandmothers and the specific men in their life they feel safe with. They have support groups for “sewing”. And when women feel safe, they will talk just as much as men will about this, they will demand just as loudly as men. But only if they feel a certain amount of safety. Also, notice how on this question and the last, more than half of those who answered were women? That is the discussion. That. Is. The. Discussion.