@SavoirFaire I was taught “Far enough away to be able to avoid trouble one way or another, no matter what”. Considering that most of the vehicles I have owned are agile and thus can change lanes easily, I can usually get away with things that a school bus can only dream of despite having comparable acceleration and braking (0–60 in 14.8 seconds, 60–0 in 197 feet, compared to a normal, modern car that can do it in 9.5 seconds,160 feet). Bear in mind that I also learned to drive in New England; snow, ice, hurricanes, dirt roads, no guardrails next to lethally long drops… basically a lot worse than the average flatlander and/or urbanite will ever experience. Try doing 45 on an icy mountain road in a whiteout with four bald tires at 2AM after four days of no sleep. Been there, done that, arrived safely.
My rule is to figure the dumbest thing that the person in front of me can do,, the worst thing that could happen to my car, and plan on at least one of those actually happening. If you ever saw a flatlander (like the average Seattlite) drive in the wintertime, you would know how stupid the other people on the road can be at times. One hand holding the cellphone, the other gesticulating like they are having a face-to-face conversation, as they do 60MPH on ice… there are some stupid people out there.
That said, I also worry that we will eventually be “too safe”. I never wore a bicycle helmet as a kid, but it is now mandatory even for adults in many places. Nearly got a couple tickets for that one! What next, enforcing use of condoms when I jerk off? Many of the safety rules we have now are to allow for people who would otherwise be considered incompetent to do things like ride a bike, drive, or rub one out to do so.
Still, for the purposes of this discussion, I maintain that if the bus drivers deserved the special endorsement on their licenses that allowed them to carry passengers, they should have known the parameters/characteristics of their vehicles and driven accordingly. If I do something stupid, I probably won’t hurt too many people. If a school bus driver with a bus full of kids does something stupid… well, lets just say that they need to be more cautious than I do.