If a person identifies with the stereotype, it’s different… and understandable. It’s just safer to not judge someone by a stereotype automatically, though.
I am from Canada and I am a quiet woman myself. I can be quite submissive and I’ve been told I’m too submissive in the past. I am also quite reserved and have been told I am delicate. I’d like to be more feminine.
I see nothing wrong with an Asian or any other woman, for that matter, being the way that you’ve described… as long as she doesn’t end up being with someone who abuses that and takes advantage of those qualities.
I feel like the way I am is not that accepted where I live.. at least not by people whose voices seem to matter to others the most. I’ve met people who seem to feel that I must be shy just because I’m quiet and they also seem to like treating me like I lack confidence. Unfortunately, they may be right… but it can be quite hard for me as I end up acting the way people treat me… so, if they treat me like I’m stupid, I feel stupid… if they treat me like I’m shy, I pull away and act and even feel shy…
Where I live, in order to be respected, it seems that women must be assertive,.. must stand up for themselves, and… must be willing compete with men.
It feels totally backwards to me and goes against everything I feel… in person. It makes me feel lost and uncertain quite a bit, even when I’m in relationships.
I may seem brave and well-spoken online, but I’m different for the most part in person.
Maybe I should check out Asian movies. ;)
And… maybe, just maybe, I am contradicting myself somewhere in this post.
Feelings can be contradicting, though…
A part of one may feel one way, but another part of that same one might feel something else.