@linguaphile Thank you for this advice. :)
I have also been recommended to write to magazines. I’ve had teachers tell me that I should be a writer and friends also. I’ve had siblings read over my shoulder without my realizing it when I was writing stories when I was younger who seemed captivated and then annoyed when I realized they were there because they wanted me to keep writing. As you can see, my writing has been very encouraged in my life and my writing is often something I feel what is a healthy amount of pride from.
I love the ideas you’ve shared with me and I wish I could just go with you to some of those because you seem like you’d be an awesome companion who has plenty of ideas to share.
I do not live in the States, so the places you’ve suggested don’t do much for me unless there are other ways I can feel fulfilled by them without actually going to the physical locations. I realize they are just examples and you might not even know where I live, though. I’ll tell you. I hope that my doing this will result in learning about more convenient locations. I could look them up myself, but maybe someone knows a place I haven’t thought of or wouldn’t have found on my own without help. Anyway, I’m from Ottawa, Ontario, Canada.
You’re quoted on a T-shirt? That’s awesome. So is being in a textbook. I wonder if I’ve seen your name. I used to like looking at names in textbooks I borrowed from school and seeing if I recognized any names just for fun, even though I wasn’t expecting to find any.
You might not feel that you have answers, but you still helped. You listened, acknowledged me, and shared your own story. You also admitted your own reluctance—you reached out to me by doing so, and I appreciate that. You seem stronger to me than you seem to know you are yourself.
@zenvelo This is very good advice. Thank you. I have kept journals in my life and I do write plenty. Getting a blog and dedicating it to my writing is a pretty good idea and would also help me have motivation to write more if I took it seriously. I also like your advice about writing what I like and getting those stories that are still inside me out. I am totally down with staying true to myself!
So, you’re saying I need to have some sort of writing portfolio?
@Fly Thank you for the encouragement. I definitely appreciate it. I do truly love writing. It is one of my passions. :) I also don’t mind it if my writing becomes noticed and appreciated after I am dead. Like I said, I want to write to be a positive influence in people’s lives for years to come… because I like the idea of it. Many writers have let me into their world and have helped me without their ever knowing and I’d love to do the same for others. You are right, though. It’s a gamble.
That makes sense. Good points. I do like paying attention to my audience(s), though. Would it be alright for me to assume that you would advise me that it’s totally fine for me to choose my own?
That means a lot. I needed to hear that. Thank you!
@Bellatrix Good advice here. Thank you! You make a good point about self-promotion. It looks like I will have to find a way to convince people that my work is worth reading. That might be hard, but it might also be quite easy. I think that would depend on how I approached it. I would, I think, have to approach it in a way that does not drive people off, but at the same time causes people to remember me and think about me. The writing will have to be memorable and connect with people on some level. I don’t want to be pushy or demanding. I want people to feel naturally drawn to it and I feel that this may be the way to do it.
Writing to become famous isn’t a good idea. You’re right. It may also create too much pressure for me. It may make me feel like I have to live up to some unrealistic image of myself. I should be true to myself and just be myself. If I do end up being famous, I still want to be me. Concentrating on fame is probably the worst idea I’ve had in this situation. It seems best to just do what I love and if I don’t become famous, oh well… and if I do, cool. Either way, there are still people who would appreciate my writing. I mean, I’m not famous now and there are people who like it. That should be good enough for me.
I do read, quite a lot. The library system where I live is phenomenal. It is one of those systems that has multiple branches connected and people can make holds online for books from other libraries. This is so convenient as the books are then transferred to our local library for pickup when it is our turn to borrow them. I take advantage of that. It gives us so many more opportunities to read.
I like that you advised me to analyze. I love analyzing things. :)
Maybe one day, I will tell you about a published story of mine… or maybe one day, you will tell me you read it and recognized my writing style from on here. ;)
@whitetigress You are right. I should not be focusing on fame, but rather on the quality of my work and my chosen audience(s). Thank you for your response. It makes a lot of sense and is very succinct and simple. :)
@anartist I don’t think so, seeing as I ended up looking that quote up on Google to see what it meant. Good advice, though. Whatever will be, will indeed be. ::)