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If you have depression, do you find that accomplishing just one small thing can reset your motivation?

Asked by Blueroses (18261points) January 13th, 2012

When I’m in a down-cycle, everything seems daunting. I’ll use a butter knife to slice cheese because that knife is already out and it’s too damned hard to open a drawer and get a better one.

After a week of this and stumbling, cursing through the dark garage, I took 2 minutes to climb a ladder and replace the burnt out bulb. It was such a sense of accomplishment that I went inside and started “doing things” and now I feel I deserve a reward.

So, Fluther, do you have these reset moments too?

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Dr_Lawrence's avatar

This is so typical, that this phenomenon is used routinely in therapy.

FutureMemory's avatar

Sometimes, but it’s not consistent. Just as often it does not reset me when I hope it will. But it’s still worth attempting, for the times that it does work :) I’ve found that if I force myself to accomplish multiple things that I’ve been procrastinating on in a short time span, say 3 things I’ve been meaning to do, all within 10–15 minutes of each other, my chances of ‘resetting’ myself goes way up.

JLeslie's avatar

Usually not. Usually accomplishing something when I am depressed leaves me exhausted. I afterwards would probably think I don’t know how I even got through it.

JilltheTooth's avatar

Yeah, usually I’m like @JLeslie in that something like that will exhaust me. I have found that the resetting is what motivates me, and often I don’t know how I was reset. It’s frustrating, as I’d like to be able to duplicate the event when I’m in a hole.

janbb's avatar

Yes so for me. I woke up very anxious and depressed yesterday and daunted by an airline booking I had to change. After I had managed to accomplish it, I felt quite a bit better.

JLeslie's avatar

I don’t think of depression as being just one day. I may use the phrase I feel depressed for a down day, but for my answer above I was thinking of depressions as lasting at least a few weeks, down in the hole as @JilltheTooth says. Sometimes I am teetering around the hole, haven’t fallen in yet, and I get lucky and wind up falling back onto the ground, rather than going down into the pit.

wundayatta's avatar

I have this thing where if I get started, I hate to stop until I’ve finished. So doing something—anything—that gets me started can be the biggest thing to get going and keep on going. Having help, also is a good technique because I feel very obligated to other people. If someone is there, I can’t let them down. I have to do what I said I would do.

I’m exhausted now because I just said goodbye to the last two presenters at a conference I organized. I’m thinking of going home early. Lying down a bit.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

No, not really. This happens to me when I’m not depressed, one small project can snowball into extra productive days… but not when I’m depressed, no.

Ron_C's avatar

I don’t really get depressed although some say that I cause it. I find fixing problems give me a real rush and I always feel good after solving a really difficult problem.

It’s a good thing that I get that rush because my job is troubleshooting difficult and unusual problems.

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

Yes, when I’m clinically depressed accomplishing even one small task can help lift my spirits just enough to move on to another task.

janbb's avatar

@Hawaii_Jake How are you feeling?

fizzbanger's avatar

Totally. Sometimes I have weekdays off by myself when everyone I know is working. When one of those days corresponds with a funk, just getting up and getting dressed is an accomplishment (but usually leads to other good things).

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

@janbb : I’m regaining my strength and my appetite is coming back. Thanks for asking.

cazzie's avatar

I notice more when things go to shit. If something happens where I let someone down, or fucked up making a lunch for someone…. I can’t get over it. The whole day is fucked….. I am devastated. Once…. My young son’s lunch ended up in my older, autistic son’s back pack. I don’t know how it happened. My autistic son took it and put it in his bag….or I did, not thinking… no idea…. but the day became so traumatic that the county mental health nurses had to visit me because I could not cope with the fact that the morning routine was messed up and that I blamed myself and cursed the situation I was in. I still get upset thinking about it.

skateangel's avatar

Well I’ve been pretty depressed for a while and for me it takes so much energy just to even get up and do things. I guess I don’t really push myself to accomplish even a small thing like that…

Paradox25's avatar

Actually the only thing that worked for me was Paxil. Even major accomplishments didn’t mean nothing to me when I got that low and it felt more like I was forcing myself through. Sometimes we can get the occasional blues that me feel like a depression but when I had a fullblown depression nothing made me feel better about myself.

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