Have some of you guys ever gone through life without a woman hitting on you?

I was pretty unattractive physically up until 30 or so. I look much different now, but it is hard to adjust my perceptions to the way women treat me differently.

No. Quite the opposite, unfortunately.

I know, boo hoo. It’s not as great as it sounds, though. Having lots of women chasing you can get bad quick, especially if half of them are your friends.

Nope. Enjoy the quiet.
It is nothing to hang your hat on either.
Why chase . Just be you.

Years and years.

No. They always do. And if I say no, they ask if I am gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

No. There were times when I didn’t know if they were just being nice or hitting on me, but I was at a bar once and this older woman asked to take my picture to show her daughtr how hot I was. Soooo…I slept with her. :D

But I still have to do the chasing the majority.

I haven’t been hit on by a girl since I was 13, but then you were asking, weren’t you, about men.

(It’s “have you ever gone through life.”)

I never had a woman hit on me in real life. At least, not that I noticed. The virtual world has been much friendlier and the nice thing is that they are quite subtle. It’s easy to ignore (and perhaps I’ve been not noticing it most of the time) but it doesn’t take much encouragement to bring it to life. I can’t decide if that’s being hit on or something more active on my part.

It was interesting though. It was something I had always wanted and then it happened, and now I can ignore it again. Although it is a nice little ego boost if it does happen, even if you don’t do anything about it other than notice it.

No but it seems to occur in spurts for me. When I do get “hit” upon by girls it seems to occur alot for me bigtime when it does happen. There are the droughts where nothing seems to happen for a while either.