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Mama_Cakes's avatar

Bisexual people, which are you more sexually attracted to, the male or female physique?

Asked by Mama_Cakes (11173points) February 19th, 2012

Or, no preference?

Just curious. :)

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Lightlyseared's avatar

Female. Or really, really fit male.

Mama_Cakes's avatar

@Lightlyseared are you male or female? Can’t believe that I don’t the answer to that by now.

TexasDude's avatar

“Just curious”

I lol’d

Mama_Cakes's avatar

@tiny’s writing a novel. :)

Lightlyseared's avatar

@Mama_Cakes where’s the fun if I tell you out right?

tinyfaery's avatar

I’m much more objectifying when I find men attractive. It is kinda of animalistic. I only have a sexual attraction to them. With women, I look at the them as as whole. It’s the look in their eyes, the smile—or lack there of—on their faces, their voices and the things that they say.

I think my attraction to guys is hormonal/chemical and my attraction to women is more about the person that they are.

That’s not to say I haven’t looked at a woman and thought “shwing”. I have, but it’s very rare.

Mama_Cakes's avatar

@tinyfaery So, with men, no emotional attraction?

tinyfaery's avatar

Sure, but I never really let them close enough to hurt me. I never really became truly intimate with them.

Aethelflaed's avatar

Eh, I go through phases, lasting from a few weeks to a couple of years. Sometimes, it’s a 50/50 split, sometimes, it’s up to an 80/20 split. Right now, I’m kinda 70/30 men, but the specific person I’m interested in is a woman.

JLeslie's avatar

The bisexual woman I know is more attracted to the female physique. When she is attracted to men they almost always are thin, not muscular, and facial features even tend to be not very masculine. She likes the idea of female relationships much better, but almost all of her long term relationships are with men, and she is frustrated she doesn’t have a lot of lesbians to pick from who are her type.

I thought I would add I am straight, but find the female physique beautiful and attractive, but never feel compelled to have sex or be in a relationship with a woman. I don’t like supermuscular pumped up men, I find it pretty icky actually. But, a medium build man in great clothes, 5’11, dark hair, perfect.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Ha, the inability to answer this question or to figure out what these physiques are supposed to look like is why I use queer to identify my sexuality rather than bisexual. People refuse to note the difference, however. Anyway, I don’t think I have any clear preferences other than I want the body to be both soft and hard, both curvy and angular, depending on what’s happening.

ETpro's avatar

I think the human body, when in good physical shape, is a work of art whether male or female.

OpryLeigh's avatar

I am more attracted to the female form but only by a small amount. I seem to fancy women but fall in love with men.

King_Pariah's avatar

Female by far.

Facade's avatar

I feel the same way @tinyfaery does, but for the opposite sexes.

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