Trying to narrow down my answer from above to the things that this woman did that would be worthy of disrespect.
Selfishly neglecting the kids in favor of her own needs.
Treating her own Mother and Grandmother like slaves.
Constantly screaming obscenties at her Mother, Grandmother and Children so she can A) Get her own way, B) Just because she’s mad, C) Because it makes her look/feel like a tough b*tch.
Hooking up with men that are bad influences for her children, just so she can get f*cked.
Abandoning her children for days, weeks and months on end.
Continuing to do drugs and steal and engage in other questionable behaviors that landed her in jail/prison before.
Treating her children like they’re her property, rather than her children.
Continuing to allow herself to be impregnated by druggy criminals, then dumping the children on her Grandmother and Mother.
Constantly yelling at her own mother that she, “Was a bad mother and that’s why she turned out this way!” Even though her 2 adult siblings turned out to be wonderful, law abiding, contributing citizens. And then being a horrible mother to her own children and not owning up to that fact.
Bringing strange drugged up men into her Mother’s home, doing drugs in her Mother’s home, being high in her Mother’s home and in front of her children.
Never thanking anyone who has helped or or has been kind to her, nor ever saying a kind word to her Grandmother or her Mother or her children. Every word out of her mouth is a complaint, a curse word, or a placement of blame upon someone else. And never apologizing for all of the wrong doings she has comitted, never apologizing for the hurt and trouble she has caused her family and never doing anything to try to fix/change the situation.