You can’t “make” women like you. That said, here’s how to make women like you:
1) Don’t be a loser. Don’t be whiny, don’t be needy, don’t be a wuss. Have confidence and be secure in who you are. If you start questioning yourself on a date, she’ll start to question you too. Edit: On the other hand, no one likes a show-off either. There’s a difference between confidence and arrogance. Know it.
2) Make your best qualities shine. If you want to date this girl, show her what you got. Show her little glimpses of yourself, the stuff about you that you like most, and invite her to journey deeper and plunge into your personality. Flipside: if you’re not funny, don’t pretend to be. If you’re not a stud, well, let’s hope you’re funny. (And if you’re neither, just soft-shoe or something.)
3) Appearance counts. When you’re around her, try to look nice. Not necessarily your best – you still want to leave some room to wow her – but do try to remember your hygiene and wear your nicer t-shirts and jeans. Invest in tic-tacs, not gum. Maybe even whiten your teeth or work out a little (both are great confidence boosters, btw). You don’t have to “make” her notice you, that’s not the point. Just make sure you look like someone that could make her happy and take care of her. This means you must look like someone who is happy and can take care of himself.
4) When you ask her out, don’t pussyfoot around. Don’t make it a big deal, don’t have your friends do some spy work for you, don’t stutter and wipe your nose and sweat until you stink. Just ask her out. Recite something if you have to, but recite it until it’s perfectly natural. Here’s a tip around the nervousness thing too: if you think she’ll say no, don’t ask just yet. Ask when you think she’ll say yes. Otherwise you’re more likely to blow it because you’re too nervous about rejection. And finally…
5) _If she says no, take it like a champ. “No” isn’t always a no forever. I’ve dated girls that first said no to me. Here’s a thing you’ll learn about people (not just girls, everyone): they change their minds. If she says no, take it like a man. Smile, say a stupid joke, don’t be embarrassed, and make your exit as naturally as possible (as in, leave when you’d leave anyway). If you need to, punch your pillow, cry into your diary, whatever, but don’t let her see. You want to be secure, remember?
Good luck, buddy. Let us know how this works out for ya.