I have never really been a lonely type of person. I get along fine by myself. I do not have pets because I am, or was, lonely. I love my dog as I would love my own child and/or best friend. He is my companion. Yes, a pet ..but his role is companion. He has been in my life for almost 16 years; how can I not love him as part of the family? I have cats and some aquarium beasties as well. I’m not as close to them as I am to Gus, my dog. I generally like animals more than I like humans. It’s not that I don’t like humans or the positive interactions with them. I just tend to enjoy non-human animals more – I always have.
This question has me pondering how it is any different from sharing your life with another human (companionship-wise I mean).
I am against dressing up your dog to look like a Bratz doll. I’m against carrying your tiny dog around in a purse. I really hate when a dog is chained up. There are other ways to deal with this. I really don’t like it when people do not pick up after their dogs on walks (it’s actually a by-law here, to pick up after them, but we still have irresponsible people). I believe pets, when out in public, should be leashed (unless in a dog park) – it is for others’ and their own safety. I am against people making their tiny dog live outside (especially in cold regions). I am against de-clawing. Not a big fan of breeding either – there are just too many animals in shelters for this to be justified. And, of course, I am against people abusing their animal companions.
The people who complain about dogs ..you are complaining about the lack of responsibilities their owners display. It is not the dogs. It doesn’t makes sense to me how you can hate dogs because they crap on your lawn. The dog doesn’t understand this, especially if the owner has not trained it properly. I always… always… pick up after my dog (I don’t let him relieve himself on people’s lawns if I can help it – which is about 99% of the time). In public, he is always on a leash. He does not bark.
Under this logic, one should hate cats and other creatures as well. Goodness, in our neighbourhood, cats defecate on peoples’ lawns often. The wild rabbits have pellets everywhere. Oh, and the birds…jeez, there’s bird gunk all on our tree, side-walks, house, fence and lawn (our vehicle too, when parked outside).
Note: The worst dogs for your lawn are the female ones. Their urine kills grass easily. This is even more on the owners’ shoulders because it is much easier to keep a female dog off of peoples’ lawns than it is for a male dog.
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This is going off on a tangent, so feel free to skip it. The problem with dogs, currently, is the relationship between us and them. Throughout history, dogs were kept to work for or a long side us. They were used for hunting, policing, war, etc. Our relationship with the dog worked well. It was a working loyal friendship/relationship. In modern times, we still use them for hunting, policing and such (just not nearly as often as we used to). Now, we also use them for medical purposes (seeing eye dogs, dogs who detect seizures and cancer, human psychology, etc).
The biggest issue is the over-breeding ..more so, over-selective-breeding. We started breeding dogs for aesthetic purposes rather than what they can do for/with us. We’ve screwed the dog up so much that many of these so-called breeds can’t breath properly, have bone, cartilage, heart, skin and eye issues. The reason for the over-breeding? People were doing well, especially the rich elite. Times weren’t as hard ..in short, people got bored and started having dog shows. The more outrageous the dog, the better. Hence, we started seeing different breeds pop up over time. The bulldog is an excellent example. The bulldog of old is a very very different dog than what we see now (whether it’s English, American or French). Back then, the bulldog was naturally built as strong working dog with a stamina to match. Now? The bulldog can hardly get up steps without huffing and puffing ..but, no matter, it is the standard for the breed. The bulldog is the most morphed and mutated version of a dog of any other breed. Even its skeleton has changed from what an average dog should be.
My point is we now have all these messed up versions of dogs that we call champion breeds and such. And we have humans that have lost touch with what a real dog is. So many people get a dog and do not treat it like a dog or don’t even know how to take care of them properly (especially with the small lap dogs). The dog ends up so emotionally screwed. This is how you get aggressive, anxious, excess urination, noisy/yappy, compulsive and timid dogs. The list can go on. It is because we have lost the working relationship with the dog. We need to find them their niche again. We need to treat them like dogs again – not little people. I think, at some point, it will get better. We will find how useful our relationships with dogs can still be ..just as they once were. The medical/scientific field is opening doors we could never have imagined. In saying all that, I’m not saying all of us are like this. But there are an incredible amount of people who have lost touch with the natural instincts of dogs – these people forget that these animals are just that, dogs.
End tangent. If you’re still reading, thank you for doing so.