@Nimis Interesting to whom? Oneself? Others? I don’t know if it matters. If you think it interesting, or if you believe others find it interesting, it seems to me that you could easily say yes to this question.
But for me, the question was more in the details than in the title. For me, what makes anything interesting is the story. Is it a story that you or anyone else wants to hear? Is it a story that you want to try to make so others will want to hear it? Indeed, how do you tell stories? How do you decide where to begin and end a story about your life?
I find that I can take any event and make it interesting or boring. So, for me, the real answer to this question is what you, the answerers, have chosen to do. I believe all lives are interesting. If you choose to say your life isn’t interesting, it’s not because it isn’t interesting, it’s because you don’t choose to tell it in an interesting way. It’s because you don’t see it that way.
Why don’t you see it that way? Unfortunately people who say they don’t have interesting stories don’t say what those stories are, so we can’t know why they are uninteresting. We can’t know how they tell the stories so as to make them boring. I believe I could interview anyone and then be able to tell their life in an interesting way. I don’t believe anything is inherently interesting or not interesting. It’s just whether we choose to tell it interesting or not.
And how do we tell an interesting story? For me, that’s all about picking the right beginning and ending. It’s about identifying the problem and then telling the story of how the problem was solved.
We have many standard story forms. Love stories: how did you meet your spouse and get married? That’s pretty easy. There’s the events that led to your first meeting, and then the end is at the wedding chapel. Hell, you don’t even need to tell the wedding chapel part any more because everyone knows that so well. We don’t even have to say “and they lived happily ever after.”
How do you decide whether your life is interesting? Now there’s a question I don’t know the answer to. I know for me it’s all social. I make my life interesting because I want people to listen to me because when people listen to me, I get some validation and then I feel like I matter.
I don’t know. Did anyone see this behind my question, or did I obscure it or ask it badly?