NSFW Women: How exactly do you like them played with?

Lol you’ve gotten mixed messages because we all have different ones…

Me? More on the gentle side. They’re not really that big of an erogenous zone for me. And when I’m PMSing (and I have an extraordinarily long PMS) they get crazy sensitive, pain-wise, so more than extra-gentle will have me pushing you off me.

Sucked and fingered gently. Don’t let any one of them get jealous – equal treatment for each!

DO NOT SLAP the girls or twist them like door knobs. We’re not porn stars.

Nope I’ll get slapped as usual. Or mother may I?

This is my kinda thread!!!

Bite them hard and you’ll lose your erection fast! lol

One thing I do like – wearing a thin t-shirt (side note: is there a less misogynistic name for a wife beater?), and having my nipples sucked over the shirt. For some reason, it feels waaay better than just having them sucked normally.

@Aethelflaed Isn’t that the most horrible clothing term ever invented? I’m embarrassed it’s still in use.

@FutureMemory do not derail this thread. I need to know! :)

@FutureMemory It really is. It’s especially unfortunate because, name aside, it’s a rather sexy piece of clothing. I hate the feeling that I’m inadvertently eroticizing domestic violence.

Back on track: Go for more of a really gentle, dough-kneeding technique than a twisty thing.

Ok, dough kneading, not twisting in circles. Makes sense.

I mean, I normally just sort of very gently try a bunch of different techniques (some women do like the twisty; they tend to be into kinky stuff), and then see how she reacts.

@FutureMemory This is my kinda thread!!! There would be NO Future in present Memory, if it weren’t!

They’re very sensitive.
I like my boobs roughed up quite a bit.

@Facade If this isn’t an entirely too personal question for you (and it would be totally understandable if it was), what constitutes “roughed up quite a bit”?

I like lots of focus on my nipples more than anything, soft, rough, flicks, nibbles, anything—but only feather light touch on the globes.

What is a globe? The Areola?

To address the sidetrack, in the UK a wifebeater is called a vest or a tank-top. (And what you call a vest, that goes over a mans dress-shirt and buttons at the front, we call that a waistcoat).

To address the first question, even before starting to transition I couldn’t stand anyone touching them at all, in any way. It was never painful or over-sensitive, just too damn annoying. I think that was down to gender dysphoria even before I knew what that was.

You can’t beat a good old honky parp playtime fun, the wife agrees….which is nice.

It depends on how far along in the process we are. Gentle to start, rougher as we go along. Light tongue flicking all the way to a good pinch.

@johnpowell The globes would be the whole breast that isn’t the nipple/aureola area.

I liked them to be gently caressed, sucked and tweaked. My nipples are very sensitive and it hurts if they are handled too roughly.

why on earth is this not a QOTD?

@Aethelflaed Oh you know.. grabbing, squeezing, slapping the breast; flicking, pinching, twisting the nipple– that sort of thing. I just don’t want any bruises or blood, so not too rough.

Conclusion… all women are different.

For the longest time, mine were not an erogenous zone at all – they are hypersensitive and having them messed with was just uncomfortable. I’ve discovered in the last few years that during certain points in my hormonal cycle, that changes. Light touches are still irritating, but some teeth and serious suction are yummy. But pretty much by invitation only.

Because of a traumatic experience when I was very young, I don’t really like having my breasts played with. Most of the time, it just doesn’t do anything for me, but sometimes it actually creeps me out and I start having a panic attack.