Hello, @BIRDistheWORD, and welcome to Fluther!
There is a help section where you can read the rules, but I’m happy to mention a few of the more important things here. First, let me tell you about augustlan, the Community Manager, and the moderating team. We’re here to help you with any questions you might have. The Community Manager runs the site on behalf of its founders (Ben and Andrew) and keeps us all in line, while the moderators do their best to help her out.
Second, we take the writing guidelines pretty seriously. You seem to be doing pretty well on that so far. Keep it up and you should have no trouble! We all get moderated from time to time, though, so don’t take it personally. We just like to keep the site looking its best!
Third, note the differences between the sections. The General section is all about getting people the answers they need, so things typically stay pretty strictly on topic there. The Social section is more relaxed and allows for conversations to wander. The Meta section is for questions about Fluther itself (like this one). Again, you seem to have done fine with that so far.
As for behavior, it’s pretty commonsensical. No trolling, no flaming. We do our best to have thoughtful and civil conversations, even on controversial topics. Nobody’s perfect, of course, but people who routinely post things just to stir up the community don’t last for long. People acting in good faith typically do just fine, though.
One last thing I will mention is that if you are going to ask a question that is not safe for work, we ask that you put (NSFW) at the beginning and make sure that the title itself is safe for work. You can say whatever you like in the details section itself, but the title should be safe.
I’m sure everyone else will have a lot to say, and you’ll learn how things go around here as you settle into the community. These are the things that most often come up from the moderation side of things, though, so keeping them in mind should keep you out of trouble. Happy Fluthering!