I always felt confident about my ability to… uh… make things up as I went along. None of what made me confident about that are things that can be transferred to you in a period of a few hours. You have to go with what you got at this point.
Which means you have to tell yourself why you should be confident. You have to go over all the things that give you reason to feel confident, and you have to ignore anything that doesn’t.
But here’s the thing. You are as confident as you are going to be right now. So go with it. There is nothing you can do between now and the exam that will change yourself. All you can do is feel good about yourself. So do it!
When you look at your professors, you should believe that no matter how hard they are on you, they want you to succeed. They are on your side. They will help you.
God forbid you should get someone like me to examine you, though. But maybe if I tell you my story, it will help. You see, I am a knowledge geek. To me, exams and research are like a fun game. I love them! I looooove them! So I am a graduate student’s nightmare because you are sitting there desperately trying to get through the exam, and I am getting fascinated with what you have to say.
And then I ask you a question. Oh god! You are in for it now because my questions usually stir up a bees nest. But if I am your examiner, just go for it. Be interested. I am not here to trip you up. I ask hard questions because they are interesting, not because I want to hurt you. I don’t even know that you are annoyed with me. I’m not thinking about you. I’m thinking about what you have to say.
Your professors are geeky, too. Knowledge geeks. They love this stuff. It’s fun and games to them, too. So don’t take anything they say personally. It isn’t about you. It’s about your analytical skills and they are going to help you, through their questions, see connections and ideas that they want you to talk about.
Listen to them. Thank them for their questions. Make them feel good for asking the question. Then use the question to explore, and really, I would say you should just go for it. Let yourself say what you really think. Don’t try to doublethink. Let this be a real conversation with your professors, as if you are at a departmental cocktail party. If you can treat this as if you are at a party, you should be perfectly confident.
And as far as I can tell, there is no reason you shouldn’t be confident. None, at all.