As someone who utilizes the services of a cleaning lady, I can tell you that mine is $80 per day, so although I think it’s a great gift idea to say give her a maid service for a day, that’s a chunk of change (depending on how much money you wanted to spend).
I’m 46, hardly old by many standards (although I understand that to some, I’m ancient). I can tell you what I like to receive as gifts – jewelry is always a hit. Maybe since it’s summer, something turquoise? Something made of shells?
Perfume is fun, even though people say it helps for people to try it on, it’s still fun to have a bunch of them. Clothes – a nice shirt if you know her size.
Does she collect anything? Any theme that she likes in particular, like certain animals? When people collect things, and you get them something for their collection, that’s always a big hit. I have a collection of salt and pepper shakers, so I love receiving them, and I also love cats, so anything cat themed is a hit with me. Does she have a pet? Get her something with that theme in mind – like the certain breed of dog she may have or if she’s into cats, it will go over well.
Also, once someone gave me a nice bunch of flowers and a nice vase, which wouldn’t have been a gift I would have thought of, but it was a nice idea and great to look at and think of the gift giver.
Frames are a practical gift that people can always use. A few frames wrapped really nicely will definitely be put to use.
CD’s – if she is into a certain type of music, even though she may download, she may enjoy a CD or a few CD’s of an artist that you think she’ll like.
Along that line, books are another thing- if there’s a book you think she’ll like, or a bestseller that you think she will like, go for it.