@Coloma It sounds like you didn’t get your way. What a relief to know that there’s a person without bias out there.
@cazzie who said “EVERY, and I mean every looney with a psych degree is trying to weigh in and give a diagnosis.) I am rather sick and tired of the arguing going on about a ‘diagnosis’.”
Fortunately for you, a 24 carat lunatic is here on the scene to rebut what you said. As far as self-pity, Aspergers robs a person of the ability to interact in a socially conventional manner to one extent or another and it really is very sad. But not everyone who has it wallows in self-pity. Frequently they have no idea why they don’t have friends. Yeah, they’re really hard to live with. How did you come to marry one? I married mine because I pegged him as solid and stable…nothing shook him up.
@bookish1 You need to run a criminal background check on the people you date. Sociopathy is not “insanity” as such. The terms psychopath and sociopath are lay terms not defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association. This is a book describing and naming emotional/mental conditions. For mental health professionals and insurance companies who have the book, diagnoses are a shorthand for describing various mental conditions. Mental conditions not in the book are are subject to all manner of interpretation. For me, the terms psychopath and sociopath have moral implications rather than mental health ones. So one can look at the same behaviors through moral terms or so called “scientifically” agreed upon ones or both. One does not preclude the other.
The closest diagnosis to what we think of as psychopathy is that of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They have a grandiose sense of self-importance, have fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love, believe that he or she is “special” and should associate with other special people, require excessive admiration and seek constant attention and positive reinforcement from others, have a sense of entitlement, and “deserve” the best of everything, take advantage of others, lack empathy, show arrogant, haughty attitudes and react to criticism with anger, shame, or humiliation.
The closest diagnosis to what we think of as sociopathy is that of Antisocial Personality Disorder. They have a failure to conform to lawful behaviors as indicated by criminality, repeated lying, use of aliases, conning others for personal profit, repeated physical fights, reckless disregard for safety and repeated failure to honor financial obligations.
Less than 1% of court cases involve the insanity defense, and of those, only around one in four is successful. In the US of A, there is a category of guilty but nuts. Anyone who kills shitloads of people would most likely fall into this category. When this happens, they go to the nut house. If they get better, they then go to trial and serve the same sentence as they would if they were not crazy. I they don’t get well, they serve about twice as long as they would had they been a non-crazy person. My point is that they will get what’s coming to them no matter what you call them.
Gotta go shoot myself in the foot now. Bye.