Balance for balance’ sake. That’s such deep analysis.
So the democrat is standing on a board sticking out over the cliff. The dem is standing right at the edge of the cliff. But someone goes and stands on the board over the edge of the cliff in order to provide balance, simply because the Republican position is somewhere far over the cliff.
This is not a reasonable nor principled position. Balance for the sake of balance is meaningless.
Of course, there is a good reason why people do this. We were evolved to position ourselves relative to groups of people. This is because group affiliation is key. It is how we survived, traditionally. It was more important to belong to a group than for the group to be efficient. Survival depended on having help more than on what kind of help you had.
So people see the Rs and Ds and if they want to feel good, they place themselves in the middle so they can make friends with everybody. That way, depending on who is closest, they always have a group they can join with.
Unfortunately, this leaves out the quality of policy proposals. Oddly, perhaps policy proposals aren’t as important as some of us think they are. That is, we survive despite implementing bad policy. People are hurt compared to what could have been, but no one ever knows what could have been. We only know what is. What could have been is a piss poor argument, unfortunately.
This means that logic and data don’t carry much weight. What matters is affiliation. So if you are going to try to change people’s affiliation, you need to make them feel more comfortable with you—not try to argue with them. Most of us here don’t do that. I suspect that’s because most of us don’t care to change the affiliation of others. We just want to argue and be right… or feel right… or feel righteous. I mean, I don’t think I’m the only one who likes to score argument points more than I want to try to bring someone over to my side.
There are certain people here that, not only do I not want to win them over, I actually want them to go as far from me as possible. I have come to not like them. Anti-affiliation. Of course, part of this, I am sure, is because I feel like they hate me. So I don’t have any compunctions about returning the favor.
However, I think that is what happens when we have these kinds of debates. We can make whatever logical point we want, but those arguments don’t really matter, because what is going on is actually happening below the level of consciousness and logic. We are sorting ourselves out by who belongs in what group.
Yet we think we are arguing about issues. That makes it confusing because we aren’t understanding each other fairly if we are arguing about issues. But if you understand this as sorting out groups, then I think you can see the process differently, and it makes more sense.
We’ve now got @laurenkem and @WillWorkForChocolate and @CWOTUS in a group that they might self-identify as independent, but I would call libertarian. Which means they are friends sometimes but not others. That is indeed confusing.
I find that my instinct is to want them to be friends all the time or none of the time. I don’t like them being in the middle. I don’t trust that. Does anyone else have that feeling?