How do I win? You can only define and cross your own finish line. Life itself ends in death – by that measure, we’ll all losers. But I don’t take that view.
What is the goal? Whatever you decide. In my life, I want personal freedom, great companionship, (the love thing hasn’t worked too well for me), career success, material possessions do have some importance – I want nice things. Mostly, I want to leave this world having done well by those in my sphere of influence: my child, my grandchild(ren), my employees, my mentees.
How does one achieve this goal? Highly dependent on your choice of goal(s) of course; but generally these factors will be important: timing, training, perseverance, possible sacrifice of lesser goals, learning from mistakes, learning from successes, partnering/collaboration, mental acuity, emotional intelligence, a smattering of luck won’t hurt, the ability to know when to stop
Have you won at life? I’m seeing the fruits of my labors, and I do feel successful in many areas.
Is it a game? No.
Is the goal of every life the same? No.
Can a life be complete if you never fall in love or have kids? Why or why not? Oh yes. Many great things have been accomplished by those who’ve never had children. As to love, I think we can fall in love without acting on it and/or we can demonstrate love in ways that aren’t associated with romantic “love.”
Are careers important? Only if they provide meaning to the individual and work as a means to further the goals of that person.
Are friends important? Yes. Very much so.
Is money important? Only as a means to achieve a goal. Money for money’s sake is usually a pretty empty endeavor.
Are pet’s important? For me, very much so – they’re my friends. But others can have very different and very valid opinions.
What determines a life’s value? That you love and are loved and that you make your world a better place.