How can I see my Friend Again?
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July 9th, 2012
Ok, My friends mom thought my dad and her were in a relationship but he just wanted to be friends so she left and we never saw her again. I miss her son! He was one of my best friends and now I can’t even see him. No one understands how hard it is to find a friend as strange and different as me. And he was just like me! He liked my music (Rock, rockabilly, physcobilly, punk, oldies, ETC) He ALWAYS complimented my outfits and band T-shirts. He doesn’t have a cell phone, I don’t know his Email (Makes me sound like a bad friend…) I don’t have a facebook, I know his moms number, but if she knew who it was, then would she even answer? NO! I do know where they live, but I can’t see them, remember?
I miss him so much. I don’t miss him in the cheesy, lets hold hands and be together forever kind of way, I just miss him. Plain and simple. I miss his presence in my life. I miss him being my best friend. (FOUND QUOTE ON GOOGLE)
What should I do?
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How do you know you can’t see him? I get that your dad and his mom don’t want to see each other, but really, did either adult say you can’t be friends with each other? Since you know where they live, there’s a lovely old custom called MAIL. Pick up a pen and write a note to your friend, buy a stamp and mail it. You could even splurge and make or buy a card. It can’t hurt to try.
Thanks. I guess it wouldn’t then. I’m just afraid I’d get myself into trouble. His mother would probably get angry if she knew. I’ll try it though.
Well, I can see a few different alternatives.
1. Do you know what school he goes to? If so, you could there at the time schools gets out and look for him. This time be sure and exchange phone numbers.
2. Does his Mom work? And is he home alone after school? If so, you could call the house then and presumably, he would answer.
3. Did you two have any mutual friends that you could ask to get a message with your phone number to him?
@marinelife
1. He lives in Chambersburg and I live in Waynesboro. We’re like an hour away so we go to different schools.
2. His mother doesn’t work. She used to be a hair stylist and clean houses but somethings wrong and the doctor said she can’t work until next year or something.
3. No. Because we didn’t go to the same school, my friends didn’t know him. Except my cousin and one friend who met him at a cookout but they didn’t know him enough or whatever.
He does have an older sister who goes to the mall a lot, so if he’d ever go with her and somehow we’d go at the same time then we’d see each other, but that would be luck if it ever happened.
Have you talked to your father about this?
Are you choosing not to have Facebook? If you are then change your mind, sign up, find him. You can get rid of it later.
No. I’ve been planning to, but something always happens. Either my sister shows up or I feel weird and chicken out.
My parents don’t allow me to have a facebook.
Find a friend who has Facebook. Have them track down your pseudo brother and have him e-mail you.
I’m still wondering why his mom would get mad if the two of you want to be friends? I don’t understand how the parents’ misunderstanding is your fault. Or even your concern. Seriously, please drop your friend a note (or any of these other suggestions) and let us know how it goes. It just seems sad to me to not be able to be friends with this person. :(
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