@JLeslie Do you think a predominantly white northern church would actually refuse to marry a black couple? I don’t know, just like I don’t know if a church of any other race would refuse to marry a couple of a different race. The same goes for the churches in the south.
I sincerely hope that any church, or any house of worship for that matter, that welcomes members of any race into their ‘home’ would be willing to perform a marriage ceremony based upon religious beliefs, as long as it is within the state’s law
I can’t imagine a northerner not understanding that this would be viewed as racist and unnacceptable, even if they were racist at heart. You lost me there. Are you saying that prejudiced people who live in the north are aware that their views are wrong and that southerners are not? If that is the case, it explains why these stories crop up in the news and target the south. It doesn’t dismiss that it exists all corners of the world.
It is stories like this that crop up in the news that perpetuate the stigma of the old racist south. I’m not denying that it doesn’t exist. It does. Here in the south, those that are seem to be more open about it. At least we’ve reached the point where these cases can be publicized. Hopefully, it will change, if not enlighten, the views of those that are not acting like true Christians.
Personally, I hope that one of their beloved family members chooses to marry someone of a different race. That seems to open the door to their perspective.
I think a lot of the big churches here, big Evangelical Christian chruches, are fairly diverse, not sure, but the smaller ones maybe are more segregated? I don’t know dear friend. I have only attended about a dozen services here in various churches. All I can tell you is that they seem to be predominantly one race or another. What are you doing next Sunday? We could meet up and go to the Belleview Baptist Church not too far away from us. That place is large enough to have its own zip code. :)
As for synagogues, I have only been to two, and one was regularly when I lived in DC. It was an all white congregation. That doesn’t mean that people of the Jewish faith shun others based upon race.
@jerv I lived in both Minneapolis and Chicago. Also, DC, which I don’t consider part of the south. While Minneapolis is predominately white, Chicago is almost 50/50, and I cannot even begin to guess what DC’s is. In all locations, I worked with a lot of people from all races. Other than DC, most of my Christian co-workers were open about their faith, but the only ones who invited me to attend their church were the ones with the same color of skin as mine, unless it was to attend their wedding. When I met up with them, it was a predominantly white congregation or all white.
P.S. “Assholes” are not limited to one race. :)
@CWOTUS It happens mostly when too much bigotry is bound up in too few people with too much power, and for that reason it can happen in nearly any organization where those conditions exist. This is an interesting point. It is probably true in many cases where a person in a leadership role makes decisions based upon others and not their initial intent. Based upon this one article alone, it sounds like this is a prime example.
From the article, Mississippi Baptist Convention Executive Director the Rev. Jim Futral said it was unfortunate what happened.
“It’s not reflective of the spirit of the Lord and Mississippi Baptists,” Futral said. “It’s just a step backward. ... It’s a sad thing.”
To be fair, it seems to crop up in the news a lot in Mississippi. All I can hope is that these reports where people are speaking publicly about these incidents shock the supporters out of a passive role and take action.
@Dutchess_III UN believable. Although, from the sound of it, many of the church members were upset over that too. Hopefully the pastor will lose most of his parish. You know, a pastor tells us to stand up for what we believe in….well, he’s a hypocrite. After you posted this, I re-read the article. I don’t see any mention of fellow church members being upset over it. I hope that they are though. I don’t wish that the minister loses most of his congregation. I hope that they speak up and help him understand that this was not the way to treat fellow members of their church. Since he performed the wedding ceremony, I wouldn’t call him a hypocrite, but, as @Jaxk puts it, he needs a spine.